It definitely takes alot of mental fortitude to go on for years & years with this curse. But ppl still call us mentally weak bc the pain gets to us eventually. They cant comprehend what it feels like to be abused & undermined every day for something we cant change...But if I had it my way I would choose to be mentally weak & fluent..bc what's the point of life if you can't connect with most ppl, have good experiences & be mostly stress free