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commentr/StutterOct 14, 2025
2 points

I get it. I can't help it though. I try to hide and put a pretty face, but the fact I don't have a strategy to help him makes me feeling like sh*t. We haven't got easy with this one and he had to st...

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commentr/StutterOct 14, 2025
1 points

It is good philosophy but it will not change reality, speaking is essential in human society, it can give or take opportunity, it can build or ruin person's life. Humans are social animals, and speaki...

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Helplessness & AgencyStigma & BullyingFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2025
1 points

Hey can I ask why? Many people say it's possible many say Absolutely Not. Why can't we ever attain fluent speech? Am I gonna be like this forever? Oh I don't want to 😰 I've lost way too much my frie...

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commentr/StutterOct 13, 2025
5 points

Yes you can. Life is all about growing and changing as a person. Hiding and keeping secrets and avoidance is the path to lifelong misery. Change your path and follow the one set by those other stutter...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterOct 12, 2025
24 points

Does anyone else hide there Stutter?

Does anyone else hide there Stutter? I’m a senior in high school and I know of 2 other kids who also stutter. These 2 other guys are very open with their stutter and don’t really care if people know a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & AgencyLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2025
13 points

I would have to say, employment. Over the years I’ve had significant problems finding employment, when you interview for jobs and you stutter all over it most employers are already thinking next as s...

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commentr/StutterOct 12, 2025
3 points

I am sorry to say but speaking from personal experience, none of it works long term or in a permanent sense. The thing is life doesn't accommodate the pauses/tricks/solutions needed to mitigate stutte...

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postr/StutterOct 12, 2025
8 points

Stuttering causes psychological problems for me too

Stuttering causes psychological problems for me too I think I'm bipolar. I talk to myself. I create scenarios in my head. I avoid people. No one wants to be my friend because I can't show them my good...

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Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterOct 11, 2025
16 points

The plans I had for my life in high school versus the life I ended up with really sucks. But due to other factors involved as well....

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Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2025
1 points

Even w/o the stutter, there's still the fear of being ignored, mocked, say something misunderstood, clumsy or wrong, the fear of being the center of attention when you talk, the fear of giving a bad a...

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commentr/StutterOct 10, 2025
1 points

I mean I understand this take, and I'd say this is the most common mindset on this sub. I see at least a few times a week people saying that if we let the stutter hold us back, that's totally on us. S...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterOct 10, 2025
11 points

It's like I'm invisible

It's like I'm invisible I'm 23 years old, and I don't feel like I've lived my life to the fullest. Something is always missing. I have no joy in life. I'm trapped in my house. Even when I go out, I av...

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Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2025
1 points

Having stuttering is like to be sentenced to prison forever....

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commentr/StutterOct 9, 2025
-2 points

You hear how all of these famous celebrities overcame stuttering to become successful. So if you can't do the same you are a failure....

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Stigma & BullyingHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2025
2 points

I also isolated all my life from social situations but on the other hand giving up and hiding when you know you have potential has become so painful....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2025
2 points

I am fat dark tone small height & i shutter too😭. Got 6 months left to finish my degree, and I still don’t have the guts to talk to my crush....

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commentr/StutterOct 9, 2025
1 points

Let's talk about how so many people with good personalities and stutters have fulfilling relationships with women while you remain bitter and alone lashing out at everyone instead of choosing to chang...

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Frustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2025
2 points

Can u give some proof that most severe stutterers are in a happy relationship? I would argue that most people are not in a happy relationship stutter or not lmao...

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Severity & FluctuationHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2025
3 points

Thanks for your reply. We're seen as disadvantage in every place. I will fight back n find a better organization soon....

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Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2025
1 points

I almost had a stroke last year because i got so anxious while stuttering that i was sweating waterfalls and hyperventilating, i collapsed and had to be moved to the infirmary. It’s not the stutteri...

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