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commentr/StutterSep 27, 2018
2 points

please dont finish his words for him. this is the worst thing you can do for a stutterer as it diminishes at the self-esteem of the person. ...

Parent & CaregiverEmotional Experience
Home SupportShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 27, 2018
1 points

Please utilize mental health services as stuttering has insidious effects on self-esteem. ...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 27, 2018
2 points

Awful, this should have been an open conversation day one. I suffered with a lot of shame because I felt like I couldn't talk about it. Sorry friend....

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Negative Therapy / HarmShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 27, 2018
3 points

Because mental health is the #1 issue with stutterers. (My opinion) I'm almost 40 and have been word-replacing for too long. I avoid my stutter so much I scramble in search of words that will leave m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 27, 2018
4 points

My parents always treated it like it was nothing. I've visited many psychiatrists and speech therapists, even though it didn't help that much. Just don't be patient with him, he doesn't need to feel ...

Parent & CaregiverIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Home SupportStigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 26, 2018
1 points

My Dad had a severe stutter but he just kept talking everybody's ear off. As a teen with a moderate stutter I felt embarrassed for him as I tried to hide mine by never talking. Now that I'm older I ca...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideShame & EmbarrassmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 21, 2018
5 points

My eyes watered up when I saw the opening scene of "the king's speech". It was so embarrassing. I'm usually the strong one of the family...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 21, 2018
1 points

See , the thing is , my stutter isn't the typical repetition type , but I have blocks where the words just cease to come out, no matter what , then I'm compelled to substitute the word for another , w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 21, 2018
1 points

I can relate to you. Around stranger I always try not to sttuter but around my family I feel relaxed and stutter way worse even if I try to control...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterSep 21, 2018
7 points

Can't even talk to parents

Can't even talk to parents This is so frustrating , I can't even communicate with the people close to me. It all gets so frustrating at times. It's not that , my parents rush me or anything , they are...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+2 more
commentr/StutterSep 19, 2018
1 points

I don't have words to verbalize how it makes me feel. If it was someone else, especially a child, their is definitely going to be a scene made. I haven't had this happen in a long time, but I litera...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 19, 2018
8 points

Each to his own I guess, but I don't take too kindly to anyone that gets clever with me about by stutter. I'm sure you mean well but I don't agree - they know exactly what they're doing, Good manne...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2018
7 points

If you can't forgive them, then at least forgive yourself. Who are you really mad at? I bet you're more upset with yourself for stuttering than you are mad at them for mocking you. Otherwise it wouldn...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2018
2 points

I hate it when people tell you things like "its all in ur head" or "you just are not good at talking n u don't talk enough"...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2018
1 points

I communicate when I have to in work and I never feel like I've "won" afterwards, all I'm thinking about is the look I just got from the person I was trying to talk to when they realise I stutter. And...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2018
2 points

On the contrary. It is exactly because I fully understand and personally feel the pain other fellow stutterers experience, to the degree I can’t be around another stutter without feeling overwhelmingl...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Shame & EmbarrassmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2018
16 points

I would never want a stutterer friend in real life. I don’t know if it’s just me, but I just can’t bear seeing another human being stutter. I don’t personally know any other stutterer, but I remember...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2018
1 points

Yeah I know I should but i’m worried he will think i’m being rude. Also it seems like such a stupid thing to complain about and I know he means well....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2018
3 points

I remember the same thing happening to me! My wrestling coach would always start smiling, and even today some people respond weirdly. I'd probably just ignore it, but yeah... definitely similar experi...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 14, 2018
3 points

Yours may not be as horrible as mine because I would give all the money in the world to get rid of this shit...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride