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commentr/StutterApr 15, 2023
5 points

I've been chosen for jobs partly because of my stutter. I was told by employers that my stutter makes me appear honest and approachable. This set me apart from other candidates who appeared to be cut ...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling OthersIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2023
2 points

Where's the choice for 'just accepting my stutter as part of who I am and celebrating my stutter as part of my individuality?'...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2023
10 points

Yeah stuttering is big disadvantage. Nevertheless there are a lot of other more important traits at work. In a lot of jobs speaking is actually a small part of the job. Sure it will take you more time...

School & WorkCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerSeverity & FluctuationIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2023
2 points

we all deal with this curse diff, some are optimistic, and don't try to let their stammer put them off doing whatever they want, but others, like me go the isolation way, unfortunately I have l...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Loneliness & IsolationHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
postr/StutterApr 14, 2023
19 points

Dad!

Dad! Dear Readers, As I sit down to write this letter, my mind races with memories of my son, born in 2014, who like many of you, faced the challenge of delayed speech and struggled to keep up with h...

Community & SupportIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Advice RequestsIdentity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2023
8 points

I felt like that my whole life. I let the stutter control my life. It wasn’t well into my 30s when I realized that this stutter is only a small, tiny part of myself. I’m more than just a stutterer. ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2023
1 points

Idk I plan on being a stuttering speech therapist 👍🏻 hope it works out...

Identity & DisabilityTherapy & Professional
Identity & Self-PerceptionSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2023
1 points

I block terribly like completely I feel like it made me more of an introvert and harmed my confidence, self-esteem etc but I don’t think it’s really fair to pin it all to the stutter....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2023
5 points

I'm very outgoing and boisterous when around friends, but I become extremely quiet and rarely talk when out and about. But I'm also becoming more quiet and reserved even when around friends as my ment...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2023
2 points

Things are bad for stutterers upto high school, and it gets progressively better after that. Most people don't have time to make fun of you because they'retoo busy with their own shit like job, girlfr...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2023
9 points

We're our own worst enemy. This goes for people in general, but you add a difficulty like stuttering, a direct impact on communication with others, it really magnifies things. I use to see myself as ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionHelplessness & AgencySelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2023
3 points

The peace you seem to have found is essentially where I am. I'm happy with myself. This doesn't negate the a-holes or the difficult days, but I don't hate myself anymore. As for the tattoo, I like t...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterApr 14, 2023
2 points

Stuttering-related Tattoos

Stuttering-related Tattoos Hey guys! I'll keep this short. I've come a long way with my stutter, going from being petrified of being perceived as someone who has a stutter to actively mentioning the ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-PerceptionVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2023
2 points

as someones who DREADED school soo much, got anxiety about everyday to the point were id get sick, this is completely understandable. but you shouldn’t have to live life in shame. you can build confid...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2023
2 points

I experience this but opposite. With people I know and am close to I barely stutter. Interestingly most of my friends don't know I stutter. But with strangers, work colleagues and people I don't know ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2023
1 points

Yes 100% but I’m cool with that. I’m not that smart so being a lawyer and a doctor was never an option but I do think that couldn’t do it even if I did have the grades. Same goes for being in the poli...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerIdentity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2023
3 points

Yeah I get you. What’s strange is, it’s not a case of me having a skill of suppressing my stutter with strangers, it’s really that I don’t ever stutter. Like when I started this job I never stuttered...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2023
4 points

That’s so great! I in fact never stutter even when I’m obviously stutter, I really only stutter with people I’m close with. It’s so strange. I wish others people had similar situation as us....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2023
3 points

Oh yeah absolutely, my situation makes it so easy for me cause i only stutter to people I’m comfortable and close with so naturally they’re always so supportive. The people I’m not close with and who ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2023
3 points

Everyone is different. I'm most comfortable with people I know and my speech is easier, but not always. I think your situation is pretty nice since you could work on it with people who already know yo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception