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commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
3 points

confidence gives you the ability to change your mind which determines the fluency level, it depends but stuttering is that mental game we all deal with...

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commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
2 points

Thank you for your response - how did you manage to transform your mindset regarding your stutter? For a lot of the opportunities that have been offered to me, it would be reckless to accept them (i...

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commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
2 points

I don’t really know how severe your stutter is, or how others around you usually react to it, so what I’m about to say may be unhelpful/inaccurate, but I think that you have to really make the distinc...

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commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
3 points

Like others have said, both are kinda inseparably linked, but if I had to go with one, I'd say confidence. My dad also stutters but he's way more social than me, even though he's not much more fluent,...

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commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
3 points

When I'm able to be more confident, I'm more fluent. So much of this is chicken and the egg stuff....

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commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
3 points

A lot can argue between causation and correlation but if I had fluency, I’d be more confident. More so, than being confident would lead to more fluency. Because at the end of the day, you still have a...

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commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
3 points

Confidence drives fluency. But again people see fluency differently for some it's gaining control over the speech, for some it voluntarily stuttering, for some it's not blocking and changing words to ...

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commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
3 points

Both are critical, but confidence helps during a disfluency, lessening psychological impacts to create more disfluency (for me)....

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commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
3 points

is a good question, instead of thinking that "fluency would give me confidence" let's imagine a situation that you can only choose one of the two, if you choose fluency you will never be a confident g...

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commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
2 points

> Hey man, i saw your post somewhere and iirc, you also have a severe-stutter. How did you make your way into it and improve it? Did you use a few techniquess to help lessen it? or just spoke your ...

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commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
1 points

Hey man, i saw your post somewhere and iirc, you also have a severe-stutter. How did you make your way into it and improve it? Did you use a few techniquess to help lessen it? or just spoke your way t...

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commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
6 points

This is exactly why I said fluency, too. I'm socially awkward either way, at least with fluency I'd have a legit means to work around it....

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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2023
2 points

\>> So what I need to know from fellow stutterers is if it’s possible to have these things even if you stutter horribly.. Yes, I have my dream job, wonderful wife and kids despite my stutter. I...

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postr/StutterApr 21, 2023
6 points

Sofware Engineer and Software Developer as a Career.

Sofware Engineer and Software Developer as a Career. Hey guys! so i researched the difference between the two and got the gist of it. I'm here to ask to those who are in this tech industry about the d...

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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2023
1 points

Wishing you all the best in your future. There are stutterers who are professionals fields but I imagine their fluency must be easier and their stuttering less severe. They have posted in this Reddit ...

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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2023
1 points

I’ll paste parts of what I wrote in another chat on this sub. I brief technical stuff to non technical folks regularly, often telling them how vulnerable their shitty security practices leave them ...

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postr/StutterApr 21, 2023
16 points

“There is no fix for stuttering” doesn’t mean “there’s no hope”.

“There is no fix for stuttering” doesn’t mean “there’s no hope”. In fact, I think the opposite is true. I think realizing that we may stutter forever is the beginning of a new kind of hope. Let me e...

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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2023
2 points

I stutter sometime, usually in a sliding scale based on how confident I am in the subject matter or crowd’s receptivity (professionals vs teenagers). The biggest thing is to find your tricks, synonym...

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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2023
4 points

Yeah, it’s out there. Make it yours. I waited for my life to begin and watched it pass by while I waited. So I went out and made it happen. My favorite slogan is crass, but direct and poignant - “g...

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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2023
2 points

My grandpa was a radio man in the Korean War he stuttered. If a stutterer and clearly communicate in a war zone u can too. Just don’t take no for an answer. Email that company back and tell them u fee...

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