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postr/StutterOct 7, 2025
23 points

I would seriously trade a leg or an eye to fix my stuttering. Yes I'm serious.

I would seriously trade a leg or an eye to fix my stuttering. Yes I'm serious. I'd rather have those physical disabilities than to have a one that is not only invisible, but also completely ignored an...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterOct 7, 2025
3 points

my damn TV remote

my damn TV remote Have one of those ones where you speak into the remote to open Netflix, etc. It keeps messing up every single day because my diction isn't clear enough with my stutter. Its actually ...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
1 points

When I was 10, with severe stutter, every second word, my teacher made us all reply to roll call by saying "good morning Mr blue.." He would say "good morning purple", and purple would reply "good mor...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringStress & Fight/FlightShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
3 points

A nurse told me this. Lol. She said “wow u forgot ur name?! That’s crazy.” And laughing while signaling to her coworker. Also in college I had a teacher yell at me in front of the class because I took...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
3 points

Well, this comments section is a ball of angry hornets. OP, it’ll be ok. Each of us had our own horror stories of stuttering and lived experience with this burden. To some of us, its crippling, to...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
3 points

Do I understand that you trying to minimize the problem of stuttering because others have it worse? I think OP is jealous and have right of fake applause, fake tolerance of normal people. How can you ...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
3 points

I agree. Also Minimal stutterers do NOT understand the suffering that comes with a severe stutter. Minimal people are still accepted as they are fluent but us we are laughed at or on the receiving end...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
1 points

> enabling more sadness for themselves until something really bad happens To me, people invalidating your experience is way worse than discovering that other people share your view on some problem yo...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyShame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
2 points

medical doctor...radiologist in india...daily practice gets hampered in patient communication and dictating reports leading to unnecessary stress and frustration ... but somehow holding the fort...I d...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
7 points

Don't let the downvotes fool you. You're right. Effort doesn't erase the struggles of being a stutter....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
16 points

Part of it has to do with the general public not understanding that stuttering is in fact a disability just like down syndrome or cerebral palsy. I have been personally told that I "didn't" have to st...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
1 points

I’m from South India (Andhra Pradesh). Over the years, I’ve worked in quite a few different fields — as a Cyber Security Analyst on a SOC project, on full-stack development projects, and even as a Jun...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
3 points

I get what you're saying, but I feel like you're really overgeneralizing. Sure, the self-pity and defeatism aren't helping anybody, and the frequency with which it appears here is frustrating. But...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
8 points

I’m an RN as well! Charge as well! Yes I stutter… sometimes it’s nonexistent, sometimes it minimal, sometimes its severe. Yes people can be jerks but I just give them a deadpan stare if they chuckle o...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
1 points

What makes you think a person in a wheelchair can live a better life than you? Don’t get to that point of self pity man. It’s rough yes, but we all have it rough, and I bet the person in the wheelchai...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterOct 7, 2025
41 points

Did you forget your name

Did you forget your name I HATE WHEN PEOPLE SAY THAT 😭🤣 makes me want to punch them in the face ...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterOct 7, 2025
35 points

Why does every other disability get a pass except for stutterers?

Why does every other disability get a pass except for stutterers? When a kid with Down syndrome or Cebral palsy walks across stage at graduation everyone claps and cheers, and they make national headl...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentAccess & Rights
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
2 points

SAME! I envy people who don’t have a stutter so much...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
1 points

I could be wrong surely, but I can’t help but feel like there’s this undertone that if a stutterer managed to use positive thinking to get past their pain and struggles, surely their stutter or bullyi...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyShame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
1 points

Happiness is nice to want and wish for but some of us will never get that happy ending. Sometimes existing in the grey is all we have. Most stutterers have tried many things to remain positive and was...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency+1 more