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commentr/StutterJan 10, 2025
12 points

Sorry to her that. Only advice I can give is to let go. Although it’s less than desirable outcome, Once you start letting go of things, it will slowly loosen its grip over you. Remember what you resis...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnticipating StutteringFeared Words & Names+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 10, 2025
17 points

I'm sorry to hear that. It's isn't easy but you're not alone. We've all had multiple instances like this. Hell, I've even used different words to introduce myself and sometimes don't even use my last ...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & PrideSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJan 10, 2025
11 points

Ma’am. This is an opportunity to show your son he’s not alone and show him how strong you are even though you have a stutter. Like many of us, growing up alone with a stutter was heartbreaking becau...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & BoundariesHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJan 7, 2025
2 points

Sounds like you're already helping. Just allow him to be heard when he wants to talk. Let him know you understand and you've actually been in his shoes....

Community & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Validation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2025
8 points

Only in large social groups where a million people are all talking over each other and the conversation is going super fast, then I tend to not talk as when I pause to stutter, people speak over me. B...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2025
4 points

One interwiever straight up said i cant speak properly because i didnt know what to do with my life. I wanted to correct her but like shees...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2025
14 points

I haven't. I'm doing my best to move in the opposite direction. With action, unpleasant but important action, you can change the feelings of embarrassment and make them neutral, even empowered. But no...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2025
8 points

I wish I could make them have a stutter for 1 day and then they might shut up about it...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2025
8 points

My stutter is severe so yeah they can see. Why dont you disclose your stutter to people?...

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJan 4, 2025
3 points

On professional competition, I'm also a man on TRT and if medically prescribed there are ways to get therauptic exemptions as long as you can prove your TRT is indeed for a medical complaint. Simila...

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJan 4, 2025
1 points

I was a cashier when i was 16 until i was 18, after that i worked in a shop where I had to sell jewelry. When I had a huge stutterblock I just said something like "I'm sorry, i have a stutter", and wh...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 4, 2025
3 points

I just say no with a straight face. They eventually realize I have a stutter and feel bad. Did it to a cashier at harbor freight when she laughed about me "forgetting my phone number" and it felt gr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
postr/StutterJan 1, 2025
11 points

How should i act when someone stutters

How should i act when someone stutters On new year's eve a friend introduced me to some of his friends and one of them had a stutter. I think I unintentionally made him uncomfortable and now I have a ...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesListener Reactions
commentr/StutterDec 26, 2024
16 points

Just do the presentation. Stutter beautifully. You will not get this treatment in the real world....

Coping & Advocacy
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterDec 25, 2024
6 points

It sounds like your comment to him bothered you since you say it happened 4 months ago. Most people who stutter want the same patience, respect and present listening as anyone else. For me personally...

Community & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Validation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2024
2 points

>Maybe my life would have turned out differently. I mean it's better now, but it's been fucking rough! I get this sentiment 10000%. Shame is a strong emotion that doesn't go away easily. None of us d...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Shame & EmbarrassmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2024
1 points

Just kick em in the crotch or smack em up side their head. I'm only half joking. You can half kick em in the crotch. So just when you're about to land the hit, pull back a few inches. The smacking the...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2024
5 points

As a kid i use to fight anyone who wanted to argue because i knew once i stuttered then it was over🤣...

Coping & AdvocacySpeech & Stuttering
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2024
5 points

Honestly i will leave them and never talk with them , i don't want to do any crimes on him so just leave him alone. In my culture there's a saying [ Dogs are barking and the shepherd goes on his way]...

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2024
3 points

Who is "we"? When I was in first grade, my teacher was some guy who probably shouldn't have been teaching. Back then my stutter was horrible. I remember how exhausting and humiliating it was to have i...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & BullyingTrauma & Psychological+1 more