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commentr/StutterJul 19, 2025
2 points

Bro that's a negative way of thinking I understand it's hard but you don't want to make it even harder thinking that way, that way of thinking does not make things better it 10/10 make life even worse...

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commentr/StutterJul 19, 2025
2 points

Hi Static, I’d like to start by saying almost everyone in this subreddit experienced the same bullying and shame that you’ve experienced from stuttering. The differential factor is mindset. Choose so...

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commentr/StutterJul 19, 2025
-3 points

I wake up every morning thankful for what I have and what I am still able to do, some people have no arms and legs man stuttering isn't too bad!...

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commentr/StutterJul 19, 2025
2 points

For me, it's so hard to know what people think because I live with my stutter all day every day. The reality is people don't really care that much and I'm doing my very best to own it and not care if ...

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commentr/StutterJul 19, 2025
3 points

Yeah it really does sucks if you compare it with ‘regular’ people. I always compare it with less fortunate. There are people out there who even can’t speak. It’s a privilege to have stutter if you thi...

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commentr/StutterJul 19, 2025
2 points

We can overcome stuttering, we don’t have to let it define us and wreck our entire lives. Everyone has some obstacle in life they must overcome to be successful. Ours just happens to be this....

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commentr/StutterJul 19, 2025
3 points

I mean if you frame it as a 'mistake' then you have made a mistake yourself. Humans are not born to be perfect. Everyone has to suffer in their life inorder to live....

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commentr/StutterJul 19, 2025
4 points

Kind of, yes. I changed my perspective on it over the years. I can do a lot of things I really enjoy nonetheless. Communication is not just verbal. It's a disability. Yes sure it sucks a lot, disabili...

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commentr/StutterJul 19, 2025
15 points

I mean are we a mistake? That's extremely subjective to say and I would call such labeling a cognitive dissonance. We just are... different than other people which doesn't make us a mistake. Some peo...

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commentr/StutterJul 19, 2025
27 points

I sometimes feel like that but then I remember how much my suffering doesn't matter, which makes me laugh at my suffering which makes me suffer less ;) it can seem hard but try to look at it from a di...

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commentr/StutterJul 19, 2025
1 points

Who cares. Stop worrying about it, you don't have to be word perfect all the time. Embrace it, and that goes a long way to helping reduce it....

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commentr/StutterJul 19, 2025
1 points

Dude, find a friend who stutters, it's a riot. Me and a buddy used to go at it, both stammering away. It's so easy to forgive your own stammer when talking with another. If you punish yourself psych...

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commentr/StutterJul 19, 2025
1 points

Yes. Maybe not 100% maybe not for everyone, but you can sure pass for someone without a stammer. There are 3 causes, physical the breath and diaphragm control, the brain stuff - how you are wired up...

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commentr/StutterJul 18, 2025
1 points

I don’t agree. As a lifelong stutterer I chose to become fluent. I researched as to why fluent speakers don’t stutter. Once I found the answer I became fluent and I never had a relapse....

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commentr/StutterJul 18, 2025
1 points

You are absolutely correct. Except I was not able to continue stuttering due to my feelings of shame and embarrassment. I chose to become one of them by becoming fluent....

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commentr/StutterJul 18, 2025
1 points

It can be “fixed” by answering the question as to why fluent speakers don’t stutter. Once I was able to answer this question I became fluent and I never had relapse....

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commentr/StutterJul 18, 2025
1 points

I never believed in God in the first place. It was in the same realm as Santa Claus as far as I was concerned, and I never believed in him either. If God does exist, he's got a lot to answer for....

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commentr/StutterJul 18, 2025
1 points

Focusing less on “getting it right” and more on staying relaxed and allowing yourself the time you need. Easier said than done, but this shift in mindset can reduce tension. A soft exhale or light con...

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commentr/StutterJul 17, 2025
4 points

I do have one i belong to a camp called campsay I’m a counselor there they have shirts that say Say what’s in your heart Say what’s on your mind Say what you want to say...

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commentr/StutterJul 17, 2025
1 points

No problem mate it's really frustrating yeah but over time I fixed it I ain't gonna even lie I think I have cured 95 percent of stammering only by myself alone without any speech therapist, if you hav...

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