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commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2019
3 points

I (26M) went to a restaurant party not that long ago, and this guy was making a congratulations speech to the host - he stuttered too, and it was the first time i saw anyone else at it. And to my shoc...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2019
2 points

I've only ever met another stutterer in the wild once. Prior to that, I had only ever met other stutterers at a National Stuttering Association meeting. I was really shocked by how mild mine was in co...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2019
1 points

I've been hiding how i felt about my stutter for years and years. My dad used to stutter a bit but he overcame it somehow...I wish i talked to him about it before he passed away three years ago, i'm ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2019
1 points

When I was pretty young (like 12 and under) my mom wouldn't really talk about it with me but she was obviously worried because my uncle would always tell her I'd grow out of it; spoiler alert, still h...

Parent & CaregiverEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Parent Emotions & GuiltShame & EmbarrassmentTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2019
2 points

I went to a high school reunion a looong time ago. My stuttering peaked in secondary school and as I’ve aged it’s become a less disabling thing unless I’m out of my wits. The women who approached me ...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Onset & Life-Stage ChangesHiding & ConcealmentPersonal Stories+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2019
1 points

Never "discussed" it but my mother once told me to talk like a real man and stop being a pussy when talking. As if I can control it...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2019
1 points

Yeah I think it definitely should be and yeah stammering affects a major part of life and this case it is being assessed so it should be taken seriously as a disability. I wouldn’t give up on it thoug...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Access & RightsIdentity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2019
1 points

When I was younger and when I went to speech therapy yes, but now they won't mention anything unless I do. It's such a big insecurity of mine that I feel awkward talking to anyone about it. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2019
1 points

Thanks man, I just had it. It was an extremely short screening call and she asked one question. Stuttered my balls off for that and felt like I conveyed an extremely weak response. However, she was al...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkCauses & Variability
Shame & EmbarrassmentEmployment & CareerStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2019
1 points

I have one in 10 minutes..Pretty much expecting failure on my part too. I hate this lmao. Can't do anything more than laugh at myself. ​ Just a purely shitty feeling after it all goes do...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Frustration & AngerShame & EmbarrassmentHumor & Community Tone
postr/StutterFeb 13, 2019
3 points

Is your stutter talked about with your family?

Is your stutter talked about with your family? My family has never mentioned my stutter to me, it’s never a topic of discussion. The only memory I have was in second grade my older brother said my mom...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2019
1 points

I've been there so I know how you feel and it can suck! I stuttered so badly in interviews, it got better the more interviews I did but I hated it :) If you ever need someone to talk to about it or ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkCommunity & Support
Shame & EmbarrassmentEmployment & CareerValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2019
2 points

I never had much of a strategy for speeches. I think having a strategy makes me more focused on my speaking and then I stutter more. So I focus on my technical stuff and audience instead. And yes I st...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2019
2 points

Idk I usually watch motivation videos before some big stuff in life (Yeah Ik I’m fuckin corny) I like this one a lot (https://youtu.be/t8ApMdi24LI) I JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW, EVEN IF YOU DONT MAKE IT IN...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationStigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2019
1 points

You still have shame. The way to overcome shame is to face it and come up with a way to overcome/accept/make peace/whatever you want to call it. This is a lot easier to do with the help and guidance o...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Shame & EmbarrassmentSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2019
3 points

It was arranged . And it’s going on well . I do face consequences sometimes due to my lack of expressing my feeling . ...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterFeb 10, 2019
5 points

I don't have the courage to stutter

I don't have the courage to stutter Due to shitty situations in the past. Most of the time I'm holding my breath and try to speak fluently very forced. It doesn't really help at all and I still stutte...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2019
11 points

At a mutual friend’s Halloween party! She was cute so I went and said hello. Stuttered my butt off while doing it too! ...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Blocks & StoppagesShame & EmbarrassmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2019
2 points

Huh, I do this too. Makes me seem to be shy and quiet when in reality I just don't want my stammer to be noticed....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2019
1 points

Your experiences are very similar to mine! In the past, I've been able to fly under the radar really well by substituting words. Many people have told me that they never noticed unless I told them. My...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more