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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2024
1 points

I work as a machinist where I gotta interact with people in a everyday basis but I like to have a script already set when people ask me certain questions but different operations or things that needed...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2024
3 points

it happens to me specially while speaking out loud in class. what helps me is breathing, even between words, talking slowly like slow pace ( i think talking slow is better than stuttering) and tapping...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindfulness & BreathingFluency TechniquesAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterMar 7, 2024
19 points

What kind of jobs are we looking at for people that have a terrible stutter?

What kind of jobs are we looking at for people that have a terrible stutter? What kind of jobs suit a person with a terrible stutter? I know call centers are a no-no, but there has to be something out...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation+1 more
postr/StutterMar 7, 2024
107 points

Props to Joe

Props to Joe Regardless of your political views…Joe Biden, who has a stammer, at 80+ just gave a speech on the world stage. I honestly don't know if I could give a 5min all-eyes-on speech to friends ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
postr/StutterMar 7, 2024
3 points

Do I have a lisp?

Do I have a lisp? I have suffered from a sever stammer from age 7 to 18. But I afraid that I started to observe different impediments in my speech more I listen to it. I can't roll my R's (which is no...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionAdvice Requests
postr/StutterMar 7, 2024
5 points

Our every interaction is like looking at my younger self but I still find that I do not know what the “right” thing to do is!

Our every interaction is like looking at my younger self but I still find that I do not know what the “right” thing to do is! For context: I am 16 and my school makes me volunteer every week. My volun...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2024
5 points

I block on vowels mostly. E and A. Really weird. When I was a kid it was S's I just avoid certain words even if it sounds funny....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterMar 7, 2024
39 points

I just found this group

I just found this group I have been alone in dealing with this for my entire life, as I'm sure most have. I'm 37 and have been stuttering for as long as I can remember. I've never met another person t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2024
1 points

I feel like that from time to time. When I do though, I try to remind myself that's mainly my own brain telling me that. Sure it may be harder for us, but it's doable nonetheless....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMar 7, 2024
8 points

How do I make my mother understand that I do not stutter voluntarily

How do I make my mother understand that I do not stutter voluntarily Hi as the title says. For context I (24F) stutter since I began to talk, but now I manage to mask it so it's only light stutter unl...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionTrauma & PsychologicalShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2024
3 points

Some days I do, some days I don’t. At this stage of my life, I have more days where I feel content in my career, able to function effectively and with pride It was not always the case I must add, bu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2024
1 points

Yes, I did fully recover 5 years ago but minor blocks appeared 8 months ago. My family says my speech is as fluent as any other person but I realize the little signs that I tend to word substitute aga...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnticipating Stuttering
postr/StutterMar 6, 2024
14 points

Does anybody feel like their professional development is hindered by stuttering?

Does anybody feel like their professional development is hindered by stuttering? So I have mild apraxia of speech, some days are better than others but I do ok in a casual setting. I feel like my prof...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2024
3 points

Great! Love your strategy. Is genius. You accept the fact that you can´t (at least for now) stutter proudly so you manage your options. I can see how it works and why it reduces your anxiety. There...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2024
5 points

Definitely not. I'm the kind of person who will cut every possible corner in the process of getting a job done....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2024
3 points

Reminds me of a story Stuttering John told about meeting a young guy who stuttered. The guy liked this girl, wanted to ask her out, but was really nervous about stuttering on their first date. John re...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2024
1 points

Yeah avoidance behavior is never recommended. What OP is doing is reinforcing their fear of stuttering. The only way to get over a fear is to go through it....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2024
1 points

Basically this. The stole the words out of my mouth. The more you think about it the worse it gets. Still, I believe it's all about controlling your emotions and fear. Meditations, learning how to bre...

Coping & AdvocacyCauses & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindfulness & BreathingStress & Fight/FlightAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterMar 6, 2024
23 points

why does my stutter instantly get 10x worse when talking to a retail or food service worker?

why does my stutter instantly get 10x worse when talking to a retail or food service worker? its barely an issue in my normal life, but the moment i talk to a retail or food service employee im gettin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
1 points

The conclusion is that Lee Lovett is full of crap. His theory about the cause of stuttering is absolutely dumb and his techniques only work for a select of people...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution