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postr/StutterJul 10, 2020
3 points

Being a PWS in the Workplace and How to Self-Advocate

Being a PWS in the Workplace and How to Self-Advocate Long time lurker, first time poster. This is piggybacking on the post asking the community if their stutter was used against them in a professio...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & Weight+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2020
5 points

Yes I have but I only found out later after I had the position for 5 years and I received a better opportunity to go elsewhere. Long story short my immediate supervisor recommended me for the position...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
2 points

I also moved to a new school in 9th grade, going from 400+ (where I knew everyone) to 2500+ (where I knew no one). I didn't have a single friend for the first two years there because I was too afraid ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
postr/StutterJul 9, 2020
4 points

Does anybody else feel super marginalized at work?

Does anybody else feel super marginalized at work? My stutter has been a strike against me with pretty much every employer. The worst thing is that unlike racial or gender bias, it’s much less recog...

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postr/StutterJul 9, 2020
14 points

My story i guess

My story i guess Ive been lurking this subreddit for a while so i guess it’s time to post. Okay so i have stuttered since i was little but it hasn’t really been much of a problem until last year when...

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commentr/StutterJul 8, 2020
1 points

It can happen that things we pretend stop being useful (perhaps because we get to used to them). Careful that you're not just adding an overhead to your stutter (like with secondary behaviors in gene...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2020
1 points

What ultimately helped me the most is to not stress out about it beforehand, don’t try to not stutter and just take your time in saying all the words properly. Speech therapy did nothing for me. Edit...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentFluency Techniques+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2020
2 points

Thank you. It's a really nice idea, thank you for letting me know about it. It will definitely make a difference. Because it's really difficult to hide my stutter. Thank you so much, I really apprecia...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterJul 8, 2020
82 points

Everything I hate about stutter.

Everything I hate about stutter. I hate stutter. I hate that I cant order something I like because of shame and end up ordering the first thing on menu that sounds easy to say. I hate that I cant ...

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2020
2 points

What a great idea. Go for it and enjoy yourself! It could be really helpful if you self-disclose at the beginning, saying something like "I have a stutter, but that's not what I want to talk about..."...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2020
3 points

Second this. Instead of editing out every stutter, own it. Smile about it, joke about it. If you get a bad block or make a funny facial expression, ofc you can edit it out but in general I’d say go ‘...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2020
1 points

I hate making phone calls because I stutter so badly on the phone. But just keep doing it you will get more comfortable and more fluent....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2020
2 points

Make the YouTube channel own your stutter be proud of it. Who cares what the haters have to say....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2020
1 points

I used to be as well. Used to spend a lot of my time editing and I just stopped caring....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2020
2 points

Hey man i stutter and i do have a you tube channel !! you definitely can do it and what i do is edit the parts out and redo parts where i stutter, what helps is making a script and then sticking to it...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2020
1 points

Lucky for you, there’s something called editing. You can edit your videos to make it seem like you’re speaking fluently by cutting out blocks/stutters, though you will need a PC to do that. Lmk if you...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2020
3 points

I used to stutter really bad in loud situations like bars, concerts, etc. Would be really awkward when I'd lean into a dude's ear to say something, have a block, and just be standing there a couple in...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2020
1 points

I understand that feeling. I have been using this phrase for a year and it has given me a strange confidence: "Feel the fear and do it anyways"....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2020
3 points

Just do it!!! I started 2 years ago and I'm having so much fun. Who cares if you stutter!!!! Go have fun!!!...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2020
4 points

I say just do it! I just started streaming on YouTube and I screw myself daily with something! As long as you’re having fun that’s what matters!...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more