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postr/StutterOct 21, 2025
12 points

Where Optimism and Generic Advice Take Over Reality

Where Optimism and Generic Advice Take Over Reality Every relationship post here gets the same vacuosly true advice: 'Work on yourself,' 'Keep looking, it’ll happen,' or 'If she doesn’t like your stut...

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Frustration & AngerHelplessness & AgencyStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
1 points

Could you keep a beach ball underwater for a whole day? (don’t hide your stutter)...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
4 points

That’s another thing we need to resolve in this community. If your goal everyday is to minimize/eliminate stuttering you are doomed to fail. It’s like trying to keep a beach ball underwater. You spend...

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Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
1 points

Tell me what you want to do with this, for me , I don't even have motivation to get out of bed. Like I don't know .............

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencySadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
6 points

The fact is you assume people haven't went to therapy with no evidence. Look at the stats on severe and stuttering and success of speech therapy. Many people try so hard and still cant fix their stu...

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Severity & FluctuationStigma & BullyingEmployment & Career+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
2 points

I think we need to be careful about presenting "70% of stutterers are suicidal" as fact. This originates from a study of 140 people on suicidial ideation and is very unlikely to be representative. W...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
26 points

Part of the issue is that people are dealing with problems people face that interact with but aren't due to their stutter, or at least not wholly. We have one more than most people but happiness is a ...

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commentr/StutterOct 20, 2025
1 points

Gay is not a disability or impediment. No one is being thrown off buildings for their stutter. As to how others perceive you? That's largely dependent on you. How you carry yourself. Your demeanor. ...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 20, 2025
1 points

I’m really confused about what to do after seeing all the positive comments and different points of view on my situation. A part of me truly wants to give it a try, but another part is scared , scared...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 20, 2025
1 points

I’ve so many goals and I’m not letting this issue stop me. Will keep trying for a solution. It’s costed me so many opportunities, relationships, and what not! Are you from India btw?...

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commentr/StutterOct 19, 2025
2 points

This is not true. Severe disabilities 100% define a person. This can be in a good way or bad way. If you are severely disabled your life is just not the same as a "normal" person. You shouldn't even c...

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commentr/StutterOct 19, 2025
3 points

I understand how you feel. I sometimes blame God for how my life turned out due to the cards I were dealt. Stutter, severe anxiety, chronic major depression, bipolar, ADHD, and epileptic. And unemploy...

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Stress & Fight/FlightTrauma & PsychologicalSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
postr/StutterOct 19, 2025
1 points

This life shit is getting too real

This life shit is getting too real I am 20 and have had a stutter for about 10 years. It has gotten slowly worse and I have a block stutter which makes it hard to even pronounce words. I have had a fe...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & CareerSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2025
1 points

Her best friends (female) and my best friends (male) are good friends. my friend asked if he should introduce me to her or maybe let her know that I like her, but I refused. I know she deserves someon...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencyDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2025
3 points

uni will be over in three months. For the past three years, I’ve just been admiring my crush from a distance. I never had the courage to approach her because of my stutter. Why would a beautiful girl ...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencyDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2025
9 points

I posted this in another spot, but I think it applies here, as I am a believer, and have wrestled with God about this for the last 15 or so years. I’ve used drugs to try to expand my mind, figure out ...

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commentr/StutterOct 19, 2025
3 points

I’m right there, and often. I went to a party last night, and I could sense that people don’t want me to join their little small conversation groups. When I’m standing next to someone, there are awkwa...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2025
9 points

Ik i can find someone who doesn't mind but the problem is that i mind. I wouldn't want to bring someone i actually love into this mess, theres way more to it than just the speech, stuttering has fucke...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterOct 19, 2025
21 points

I feel excluded from humanity

I feel excluded from humanity with each passing day, I see how horrible, disgusting, cruel, and unfair this world is. Why are some people condemned to live through hell on earth while others seem to h...

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Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterOct 19, 2025
22 points

As a Christian i feel betrayed by God

As a Christian i feel betrayed by God I shouldn't have to go through hell if God really is with me. As ive said in an earlier post i sometimes wonder if am actually dead and am in hell without knowing...

Emotional Experience
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