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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2025
1 points

This is so true! At work, we're required to wear badges, and whenever I meet someone new, I have no problem pointing to my name tag and saying my name. But in other situations, I struggle to say my na...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2025
1 points

It’s ok to feel what you’re feeling. I stutter during my presentations too. Something I began asking professors is if I could record my presentations instead of having to physically speak in front of ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & RehearsalFluency Techniques+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2025
2 points

I didn't answer my phone for about 4 years. My solution was to force myself to use the phone. I called shops to ask when they would close. I would ask when my energy deal ended. I would say i had a st...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentFluency TechniquesHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2025
1 points

Yes, but because I didn't stutter he might have blown me off. He did prescribe a very common antidepressant that made things worse. My stutter is situational. I stutter badly when trying to explain an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2025
1 points

You'll have to provide them a certificate or let them know about your stutter beforehand....

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterMar 20, 2025
7 points

My stutter wants to talk to the manager, apparently!

My stutter wants to talk to the manager, apparently! Gonna start this off by saying one time a week meaning person on the phone blessed me like I sneezed every time I struggled. I think of this woman ...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerStress & Fight/FlightDisclosure & Telling Others+2 more
postr/StutterMar 20, 2025
27 points

Over it

Over it I hate when I'm trying to hold a conversation with someone or even just saying my name and my stutter blocks me from doing that. Today I had to introduce myself to a lot of people at my new jo...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & StutteringSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentBlocks & StoppagesFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2025
2 points

The good thing about Hirevue is that they usually give you multiple takes to record. I’d use the first couple to practice and “workshop” your answer. I operate best with a framework and the one I use...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2025
1 points

I don't know how she'll perceive this, but as someone who stutters, whenever I have to engage in a long conversation, I use a small notepad and write out my sentences and let the other person read it....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2025
3 points

I think it depends on the person and how bad it is im only 15m but my stutter has effected my social life a lot ( have like 1-3 friends and never have dated so ya but for me at least if he starts to ...

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Friendships & BelongingDating & RomanceSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2025
12 points

To know what he's feeling you'd have to ask him. Don't think it's overstepping or rude to ask him questions about it because you deserve to know just as much as he deserves to be himself around you. I...

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Friendships & BelongingSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesValidation & Empathy+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2025
1 points

I agree with you. Normally when I tell an employer I stutter they shrug it off and say it's not a factor. I don't tell them until I'm face 2 face or over the phone already so they have an idea of my d...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2025
2 points

It shouldn’t be this way. Self disclose at the beginning of the interview. At least give yourself a chance. What’s the point of letting them know beforehand. Along the lines of .. “ you may notice tha...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersAccess & Rights
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2025
2 points

Sorry to hear that. It’s unfair. Next time, you might try disclosing it at the beginning of the interview. You’ll have more control over the situation that way. I suspect they just didn’t know wha...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2025
2 points

I get your point. My stutter isn’t so severe. I speak sentences fluently for the most part but there are certain words that I struggle with. I never mentioned it to any of my employers. But iv been li...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2025
1 points

I obviously don't know how severe the stutter is but if it happens just occasionally I don't see the reason to mention it. Like anyone can take pauses when they speak and it doesn't mean anything....

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2025
7 points

So that the employer knows beforehand that he stutters before the interview....

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2025
9 points

Whatever you do, we will all be here to support you. You are not alone. 99.9% of people don't care you stutter. The other 0.01 are asshats. If you can, reach out and get help from a speech therapi...

Community & SupportSocial & RelationshipsTherapy & Professional
Validation & EmpathyDisclosure & Telling OthersSeeking Therapy+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2025
1 points

i never do because i don’t like getting special treatment for my stutter. maybe in a job interview or something formal like that but regular conversation or a date, whatever the case i never disclose....

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2025
1 points

I do, every single time. I do it to avoid questions or someone asking “are you okay?” When I’m trying to speak and they don’t understand it’s a stutter. I also find that this makes the conversation mu...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & Concealment