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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2016
1 points

Two main reasons on why I don't date as a person who stutters and I'd like to hear feedback on this. If you just asked me straight-off my first line of response would be (as a moderate-severe stutter...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
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commentr/StutterJun 12, 2016
1 points

I threw out a random amount. I personally would never go anywhere for a first date that would result in a bill being $50. I can't be bothered to date. Too many potential cons and barely any pros. ...

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commentr/StutterJun 12, 2016
3 points

.. Why are you paying for a first date? Why is a first date at a place that costs 50 bucks? Bro, first date is always coffee or something unless you know her well enough to know that you'll get alon...

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postr/StutterJun 12, 2016
5 points

stuttering ruined my life, but im trying to fix it (please read)

stuttering ruined my life, but im trying to fix it (please read) alright sooo, im 15, i've been stuttering my whole life, when i was young (5) i began to stutter and my parents thought i was just fuck...

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commentr/StutterJun 12, 2016
1 points

Since talking is work, dating is work. I get very exhausted after talking for long periods of time. My thinking process when it comes to dating differs from most I believe. Here's an example of an ...

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commentr/StutterJun 12, 2016
2 points

I definitely understand the desire to "black-list" dating, and sometimes I've gone through periods where it's not worth the hassle, but then I have periods where it's totally worth it. The "return" a...

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Dating & RomanceHelplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2016
0 points

You're entitled to your opinion. Being a 26 year old with no prior dating experience makes me rather old in the dating game. There are some aspects in MGTOW that I do not agree with, but there are a l...

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commentr/StutterJun 12, 2016
0 points

I have no shot to be honest. Too much work + risk with no reward that's worth it. That's why I've black listed relationships. Also I'm incredibly cynical, I don't trust anyone that isn't my family or ...

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commentr/StutterJun 10, 2016
2 points

What other people think is not even the number issue with me but rather disappointing myself. I am embarrassed in front of myself if that makes sense. I have always held myself up to high standards an...

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commentr/StutterJun 9, 2016
1 points

I don't understand your point. Is your point to not try and give up, like all the other pussies on here? What yo wrote looks like a lot of justification for failure....

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commentr/StutterJun 9, 2016
1 points

Yup, that pretty much sums up my life. I've explained it to my family and they don't understand the struggle - only those that experience this will. I'll just say to stay healthy and be positive bec...

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commentr/StutterJun 8, 2016
1 points

I don't know if it makes it easier but to me "accepting" it is allowing it to win. And I will not accept being humiliated and living a low quality of life.. I overcame many problems in my life by not ...

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commentr/StutterJun 5, 2016
3 points

I agree with you OP. I will never accept this BS and will fight it until the day I die. Until then I say as little as possible in as few words as possible....

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commentr/StutterJun 4, 2016
1 points

It certainly isn't over. But it doesn't allow a lot of people to live our lives the way we want....

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commentr/StutterJun 4, 2016
2 points

I mean, what are we supposed to say? "Oh, wow, we have a stutter, our lives our ruined." No. We *step the fuck up.* Buckle the fuck down, get the fuck to work. (Metaphorically or literally.) I can't c...

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postr/StutterJun 2, 2016
6 points

I really need help finding a Job. I turn 20 in 4 days and all my mom does I berate me about it.

I really need help finding a Job. I turn 20 in 4 days and all my mom does I berate me about it. I have a very very severe stutter to the point were I haven't said a full sentence in almost a month. I ...

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commentr/StutterJun 2, 2016
1 points

I never said it doesn't affect people, including me. But just because something is harder it doesn't mean that you should just give up and live your life in despair. Because guess what, there are peo...

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postr/StutterJun 1, 2016
11 points

The worst part about stuttering is people telling you to suck it up

The worst part about stuttering is people telling you to suck it up Imagine being depressed and contemplating suicide because of your shitty miserable life, then someone tells you "you have two choi...

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commentr/StutterJun 1, 2016
3 points

Pretty ignorant of you to say that. I gurantee you if you asked a million stutters if their lives would be better if they didn't stutter, 99.9% would say yes. Stop acting like stuttering does not hol...

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commentr/StutterJun 1, 2016
2 points

Nope, not easily. Stuttering makes doing those thing a million times harder and we all know it. It is much easier for a non-stutter to become head of the debate team than someone who stutters....

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