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commentr/StutterJul 26, 2019
2 points

I don’t feel the same but I can empathise with how you feel, as there is nothing worse than people laughing or thinking you’re messing around or something! Mine is bad enough that the first time peopl...

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postr/StutterJul 26, 2019
19 points

Can anyone else relate?

Can anyone else relate? Was glad to find this sub tonight, wanted to get this off my chest. I think I've always had a mild stutter. Is it awful of me to sometimes wish my stutter was worse? At present...

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commentr/StutterJul 25, 2019
4 points

I don’t know how to tell you. But, I can tell you for sure I am totally with you. I have been dealing with my stuttering for a long time. It’s embrassing. Because all of people expect me to say as nor...

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commentr/StutterJul 24, 2019
2 points

I do! Twelve year old me saw it as an attack. Ironically, this evil woman's name was Smiley. Jk about the evil. She has a good sense of humor....

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commentr/StutterJul 24, 2019
4 points

I 'member my 8th grade teacher giving out joke awards at the end of the year and I won for "longest stories" She didn't know but it really depressed me....

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commentr/StutterJul 24, 2019
1 points

My parents weren't precisely the best. Long story short abusive toxic behaviors including aggressions. Being a child stuttering didn't help that much....

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commentr/StutterJul 24, 2019
4 points

I had the classic LMAO ALL YOU NEED IS TO RELAX, LET'S CONTRIBUTE TO YOUR ANXIETY YOU DISGUSTING CRIPPLED CHILD parents. Unsurprisingly it all went much smoother and better when I left home....

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postr/StutterJul 23, 2019
12 points

I stressed myself out for the interview but didn’t even get the job.

I stressed myself out for the interview but didn’t even get the job. Now I’m left wondering if I didn’t get the job because they noticed my stutter (I stuttered a fair bit in the interview) or because...

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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2019
1 points

Same. I just had to speak in front of a class of 30+tonight and I want to die. It was bad...

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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2019
3 points

It’s really not the “cute” part that gets me, it’s the noticing that does. I’ve been told this before and I immediately think “fuck all this time I was trying my hardest to hide it and you still notic...

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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2019
1 points

Say, I'm curious: Why do you dislike being called cute? I mean, it could've been your hair - or your shoes - or your dancing - or your freckles - or whatever. This just happens to be your stutter. Wha...

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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2019
7 points

yeah i dont like it as well, i dont like when the thing that has been pulling me down gets called cute, if its so cute then anyone else can have it, i never asked for it...

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commentr/StutterJul 21, 2019
1 points

I am an Arab so in this case I was speaking Arabic. Soo my mom told me to go to the neighbour's and give them a dish for a specific person that person's name was angi soo I went and was feeling anxio...

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commentr/StutterJul 19, 2019
1 points

This. I did Hollins Reseach Institute back in the 90s. I think it helped a lot at first but there is a lot of practicing involved but dealing with your own perspective and the emotional change is a ...

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commentr/StutterJul 19, 2019
2 points

I have been through a few of these and I can say they absolutely don't tackle the emotional aspects of stuttering. I am still working on that. Physically? Yes these programs can change your stutter......

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commentr/StutterJul 19, 2019
1 points

Oh, I see you're not into relativizing the term "suffering" a bit, then. It's become something you predicate about people way worse off. Gotcha. :) I would've told you that stutter is indeed sufferin...

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commentr/StutterJul 19, 2019
1 points

I'm against it in this instance because I'm not suffering. Stuttering sucks and I hate it but I'm not suffering. If I were, I wouldn't have gotten as far in my life as I have. And my mom and I have ta...

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commentr/StutterJul 18, 2019
1 points

"but for all of us in the family."? Does that mean your stuttering is a hardship on your family?...

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commentr/StutterJul 18, 2019
1 points

Wow, I'm sorry that happened. I can totally relate to getting them right before bed and then it makes it even harder to sleep. When I was in 7th grade everyone took turns pairing up with someone from ...

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commentr/StutterJul 18, 2019
3 points

I get it a lot, but as a stutterer I know that I am going to stutter, there is nothing I can do to not stutter(I have a block, which means speaking slow won't help) I just keep it in my brain and wait...

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