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commentr/StutterMay 29, 2024
1 points

My stutter is weird, I think it's related to anxiety. Cuz outside I speak 99% normal. But at school I used to stutter so bad. But it wasn't always the same, sometimes I didn't stutter, other times I s...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentSeverity & Fluctuation+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2024
17 points

I can relate to that. Sometimes when I want to ask a question for example "Do you like strawberries?" I know it's going to be difficult, so I just say "Are you a fan of strawberries or are you interes...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2024
2 points

I was always sort of popular and had many friends in school. I was outgoing and tried to be funny for the most part. People would tease me, but I had a good attitude about it. I also wasn’t afraid to ...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2024
1 points

For one I always hated popcorn reading & especially where the teacher would start with one student then we go from front to back of classroom, that made the anxiety worse knowing it’s almost my time t...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic LifeStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2024
1 points

That’s very real. The anxiety when I’m not even talking because I know I’ll have to talk soon is exhausting and never ending....

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2024
2 points

I just graduated college, school was a weird place for me. I feel like my stutter has actually gotten worse over the years. I was made fun of and laughed at, but never seriously bullied. I had friends...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
School & Academic LifeAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2024
1 points

I have a problem when I have to greet someone in real life. In school I usually raise my hand as a greeting, but on the street it is so much troubling. Today I saw my close friend (well we have only k...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & StutteringCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPhysical TensionStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2024
21 points

Hell yeah. Kids can be mean. The thing I hated more though was when teachers would give me the stares. You’d think an adult would know what a speech impediment was. I vividly remember one HS teacher c...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2024
3 points

I can completely emphasize how you are thinking. I'd only suggest you calm down and don't take so much pressure. It's okay to stutter. You're worrying because you think people will judge you. Surely t...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2024
6 points

Before I get downvoted to hell. I mean don’t put so much pressure on yourself to make a good first impression by being funny and witty and interesting. If you don’t feel like saying something then don...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
postr/StutterMay 28, 2024
9 points

Meeting New people

Meeting New people There’s nothing more I hate (aside from presentations) than meeting new people. I feel like I would get more used to it the more I do it (and indirectly my stammer would improve bec...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2024
2 points

Answering a phone is my nightmare also, my dad gets mad at me when I don’t answer but when I do answer, I get so nervous...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2024
1 points

I’m not sure, I do feel like I’m treated lower as a human being sometimes, and feel like I’m taken less seriously. There’s been times where I felt like a teacher was treating me like I was a little ki...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterMay 28, 2024
5 points

Call Simulator Suggestions?

Call Simulator Suggestions? Hey, so I’ve just started a new job about a year after graduating from my undergrad - in my final year of college I was outgoing, sociable and chatty. My confidence really...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2024
1 points

I hate it more than anything that I can’t express myself. People think I am stupid when I can’t finish a sentence and they start to treat me like a little child. It messes with my self-esteem....

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterMay 28, 2024
8 points

Can’t say hello or hey when answering the phone

Can’t say hello or hey when answering the phone A couple weeks ago I randomly started having some trouble greeting while on the phone. It’s almost like my throat tighten & I can’t get anything out. I ...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2024
2 points

I have the same issue. Because of this, I stopped going to school and studying. It's been six years since this problem started. Now, I experience anxiety when writing in front of others, which makes m...

Emotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Anxiety & Social JudgmentRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2024
8 points

People thinking you’re mad or upset when you take a minute to breathe before replying to them. Or making involuntary facial expressions as you’re talking and it comes off as being upset or frazzled. ...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Physical TensionAnxiety & Social JudgmentFeared Words & Names
postr/StutterMay 28, 2024
22 points

Stuttering took a very bad mental toll on me.

Stuttering took a very bad mental toll on me. Depression, social phobia, avoidant personality disorder. I'm 28 and I've been suffering from this since I was 15. I've been in therapy but it hasn't...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2024
5 points

I think because we are different and people stereotype us from movies and tv shows. I think sometimes you may be the first stutterer the other person has ever met so they don’t know what to do with...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying