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commentr/StutterMay 30, 2024
2 points

The fear,anxiety,humiliation and embarrassment caused by stuttering can be crippling. Only someone with stutter can understand your pain. What helped me deal with fear and anxiety was starting med...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2024
2 points

Yeah if you think it might make you more comfortable, can be as simple as “hey, I just wanted to let you know I stutter so speaking in this class will naturally be a little more difficult for me.” You...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersValidation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2024
2 points

I'm 52 and I know the exact situation you described ! Nothing worse than a grown ass man feeling like a little kid in front of a room full of people. I've been in that situation all my life and thou...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2024
2 points

I knew I kinda stuttered but I never felt it was a huge deal, it never stopped me from being a bright, happy, extroverted child. My elementary school was actually really advanced and honestly a very g...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilityParent & Caregiver
Sadness & HopelessnessAnxiety & Social JudgmentTrauma & Psychological+1 more
postr/StutterMay 30, 2024
6 points

Left my bedroom to face life now

Left my bedroom to face life now so I was preparing for national level exams which I have cleared(with 1 year of dedication) and now we are having trainings in which we have to improve our communicati...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & WeightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2024
4 points

Going off of this, a lot of people who don’t even stutter are uncomfortable talking about it with people who stutter. Having that conversation about something so introduces a level of “intimacy” that ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2024
4 points

Stress/anxiety/environment are the biggest, but some level of genetics probably plays into the severity as well. I find that my stutter is at its worst when I’m particularly stressed/anxious, or I am ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentCycles & Randomness
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2024
2 points

There’s some great advice being given here, but I just wanted to say that you shouldn’t think it’s pathetic. It makes total sense to feel anxious about public speaking. We stutter, of course speaking ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2024
3 points

Your right man 100%. I know anxiety is real because I've lived with it my whole life. I'm not saying it's pathetic to be a little nervous but the fact that I'm still nervous & haven't accepted this im...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2024
3 points

I am similar. I struggle with introductions and I struggle when speaking in front of groups. I self advertise, it is all I can do. “Hi, I am … …. … Rrr ….. …… geez …. Rokkitt. I have a stutter and ap...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2024
1 points

Stuttering is definitely proportional to baseline anxiety. I always stutter harder and more frequently when I’m nervous, excited, surprised or overwhelmed...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2024
3 points

I'd tell the instructor that I stutter and it's too much for me to present in front of others. I'd take that embarrassment over blocking, stuttering, and sweating in front of a group of people any day...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2024
1 points

Those activities might seem identical on the surface, but they are actually two different things. One is talking to yourself, one is talking to someone else. There is no social element to talking to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2024
2 points

Your 100% right brother. Everybody should ask for help and accept themselves. But for me & the masculinity thing it doesn't make sense ill admit. But it's still another thing that makes me feel innept...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social JudgmentTrauma & Psychological+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2024
2 points

My stutter is at its absolute worst when I'm speaking in front of groups, so I hope I can understand how hard it is-- for me, and it sounds like for you, not only in the moment but also in the build-u...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2024
4 points

I understand. I don’t stutter much these days, but I’ve had embarrassing moments in the past. Perhaps try to speak with others before the instructor starts class. It may help you if you know others i...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterMay 29, 2024
12 points

Problems with speaking infront of crowds

Problems with speaking infront of crowds I feel like for a man in his 30s still being nervous about talking with other people around is pathetic and it's something I hate myself for & still haven't fo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2024
14 points

I feel you 100% I am 27 years old working long hours at Amazon warehouse just to be able to afford a living. I live in London, so as you can imagine it is also very expensive to live. Having a stutter...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & CareerQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2024
3 points

I'm 21. I recently got out of a heavy alcohol abuse cycle that ended with me showing up blackout drunk to a brunch at 11 am. It was my "wakeup call", and after an intervention the next day I broke the...

Meds & SubstancesEmotional Experience
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Anxiety & Social JudgmentSide Effects & Risks
postr/StutterMay 29, 2024
6 points

It's weird how we stutter when talking to someone on the phone versus recording something on the phone

It's weird how we stutter when talking to someone on the phone versus recording something on the phone I know I'm not the only one with this phenomenon. When you're by yourself, you can speak with eas...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentLoss of Control