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commentr/StutterMar 14, 2019
2 points

Omg. The “can you repeat that” is the worstttt. I could be speaking fluently all day and having a good time. But when someone asks me to repeat myself because they couldn’t hear or I laughed thru the ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Overthinking & MonitoringListener Reactions
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2019
3 points

I can relate - I've been in the business world for almost 20 years (I'm 41) and have been in the situations you describe. Some ideas that some to mind (not sure if any of these would help): * Is the...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & RehearsalOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2019
1 points

yes, this definitely happens to me. i think it has to do with the fact that i need to speak very intentionally/deliberately in order not to stutter, but this is difficult to do with all the distractio...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Overthinking & MonitoringEnvironmental Triggers
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2019
1 points

Don't think it directly changed my stutter but just was one less thing to feel self conscious about. Which reduces my anxiety which does affect my stutter ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2019
2 points

You took me back to my first day at work. Our orientation was going on in a conference room, every one casually introducing themselves. My heart rate was mimicking step function with my turn getting c...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2019
5 points

There's a thing called secondary movements. If I was really stuck on a word I'd touch my face. When I was in Speech therapy years ago. They said it's just like a ritual habit and I broke it just by be...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Physical TensionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2019
1 points

If I get called on in math class when I’m not paying attention, I do the problem in my head as I stutter....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2019
3 points

You could frame it in turn of progress instead, I suppose. Like, you used to not be able to get anything out. Now you can get this prolonged sound out. If you keep at it, maybe those long sounds will ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringHope & Motivation
postr/StutterMar 5, 2019
4 points

Talking with teachers

Talking with teachers I’ve been thinking about this for a while now. But when I go and ask the teacher if I can go to the bathroom and take 15 seconds to say bathroom. And they say yes, do you think i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Overthinking & MonitoringListener ReactionsQuality of Life+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2019
2 points

I agree with you, so do you think the best way to combat stuttering is to stop thinking about it and simply live as stress free as possible? Because with myself personally, my mind is always thinking ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2019
2 points

> Clear/logical thinking while speaking is my ideal goal as I feel this is the only way I'll ever be able to avoid stuttering. Amen - I knew I wasn't the only one whose stuttering disrupted their ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Overthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & Weight
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2019
1 points

You just described me down to the letter, except that I’m a guy. I started stuttering at about 8 (34 now), primarily having difficulty with beginning of sentences, because my mind was always racing. I...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationOverthinking & MonitoringFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2019
4 points

I don’t experience this with my parent, but I do with a really close friend. I’ve always thought it’s because I think they with this person it really doesn’t matter if I stutter, then I think about st...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2019
1 points

When you know you stutter like 80% less when you're alone, isn't getting out of your comfort zone THE best way to reduce stutter? It's a mental thing. You have to become naturally comfortable when you...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationOverthinking & MonitoringAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2019
1 points

In my personal experience as a stutterer, anxiety 100% makes my stutter worse. The fact that you get stressed and anxious only makes the stutter worse. From what you described it could definitely be a...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2019
1 points

Alright, so it's a mindset thing. Why do you think you lose confidence when you stutter?...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2019
1 points

Exactly the same with me. Also stutterer myself. My mind just goes: "okay, calm down u can talk good, u know u can". And a few lines later some awkward stutter comes out and sometimes the words dont c...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2019
6 points

You’re not alone! A lot of the time when I hit a block or I repeat a sound (something like a-a-a) I’ll tense up my face and make a ridiculous face. I guess I’m just concentrating on getting it out? ...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Physical TensionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2019
3 points

I think you’re right in a way. Practicing does make you better but in the moment is another story. I can talk to myself all I want but telling a joke is really hard to do with out blocking or stutteri...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Overthinking & MonitoringBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2019
2 points

Yeah! Exactly. Whenever I feel like people are judging me or I'm thinking about stuttering, I stutter....

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring