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commentr/StutterJul 9, 2022
4 points

I have a cousin that’s 14. He was the worst about my picking on me for my stutter and he got away with it because “he’s the baby” One night, my family, (grandma, his mom, and 2/4 of his siblings and ...

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commentr/StutterJul 9, 2022
3 points

It's weird how that works. Staring at someone who's stuttering doesn't help, but people instinctually do it. Your family can suck on a bunch of eggs for all I care...

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commentr/StutterJul 8, 2022
4 points

Wow, that's too bad. I'm in the US, so I guess it's a little different, but my family are the only ones I'm actually comfortable around who don't judge me. I would be pretty depressed if I didn't have...

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commentr/StutterJul 8, 2022
7 points

Nah man, immediate family are the ones that make you feel that you have embarrassed them and yourself, if you stutter in public. Atleast that what my experience has been being in Asia....

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commentr/StutterJul 8, 2022
14 points

Man, that's rough. I feel like family are the ones who should accept you the most, not stare at you and embarrass you. My family are the only people who get it and one hundred percent don't care how I...

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postr/StutterJul 8, 2022
28 points

It’s so embarrassing stuttering in front of my family

It’s so embarrassing stuttering in front of my family I went to dinner with my family who I haven’t seen a while, and while ordering I stuttered so much and it was so embarrassing and they just stared...

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postr/StutterJul 4, 2022
1 points

who do you stutter around?

who do you stutter around? I was wondering if you stutter more or less around certain people. Mine is best with my friends, getting progressively worse with my girlfriend and awful with my dad but get...

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commentr/StutterJul 2, 2022
2 points

I’m (29M) close to tears reading this (must’ve struck something close to the heart lol), cuz I would’ve loved for my dad to do this for me. While I don’t blame him cuz he tried with what he knew, but ...

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commentr/StutterJul 2, 2022
1 points

I’m bilingual (Spanish growing up but became more fluent in English later on in life) and while I stutter in both, I struggle to say anything in Spanish (especially with my dad that has put a strain i...

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commentr/StutterJun 26, 2022
2 points

It's all good. I know my grandad feels kinda guilty about me, which I feel bad about so maybe I was being too sensitive lol. He even takes me to speech therapy and helps pay for it....

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commentr/StutterJun 26, 2022
1 points

I don't know why you'd blame your mom if she doesn't even stutter (or even if she did lol, not like people hope their kids will have this). My grandad has a bad stutter and I don't blame him at all....

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commentr/StutterJun 1, 2022
1 points

First of all, its really strange how you developed a stutter so late. I would like to you how severe is it and talking about your friends, they are really chutiye. And yes my cousins also used to bull...

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postr/StutterMay 29, 2022
15 points

Advice

Advice Hello everyone i hope you are all great! I just wanted to speak about something i’m pretty confused on. Does anyone else experience a parent or anyone close to you seeming a little agitated whe...

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commentr/StutterMay 25, 2022
3 points

I often curse my father. I never tell him, but inside it annoys me. I myself have a child the tendency to stutter is there but let's hope that it does not arrive. In a few years, science will be much ...

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commentr/StutterMay 25, 2022
2 points

I have this burning question/scenairo in my mind for years now and I have finally found the perfect person to ask it to. Since your father stutters, and now you stutter, have you ever resented your ...

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commentr/StutterMay 24, 2022
2 points

Do you tell people you stutter and that's why you can't say your name? People will usually get off my case when I explain that. Some people are rude and will mock me but I try to ignore it or stay awa...

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commentr/StutterMay 15, 2022
9 points

It's never really bothered me either. But it bothers my family they kinda treat me like I'm defective. They are always telling me what they think caused my stutter its really annoying. But ya then I s...

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commentr/StutterMay 12, 2022
3 points

I FUCKING KNOW RIGHT, MY MOM USED TO GET ANGRY AT ME FOR STUTTERING, I TOLD HER I COULDNT SAY IT, AND HER EXCUSE WAS I WAS ABLE TO TELL HER THAT...

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commentr/StutterMay 11, 2022
2 points

One thing I would suggest is, to not believe it will go away. Do not get your hopes up, and don’t get hers up either. My stutter has been mild my whole life as well. I am 24 years old and still stru...

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commentr/StutterMay 1, 2022
6 points

I agree with Pat Daddy. If people are treating you like during the reunion you do not have to go. If your mom and sister try to guilt you; they are being unhealthy. You are only responsible for your r...

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