Search

My coworkers are understanding of it, when I stutter I just get through it since there’s no other option lol. Talking to customers is fine too, I just get through it. There’s another developer that ha...

How does your stutter affect your job as a software engineer?...

You not going for speech therapy ? That usually helps a lot , provided you work hard with the techniques. It can really make life smother for you. I'm also very severe and I'm planning on it from Janu...

I’m 24 and live with my wonderful girlfriend and our little cat. We have been together for around 2 years at this point. I’m mostly pretty fluent now, but somedays it’s still hard and it definitely li...

70% of 18 yo 29 year olds where? Who was asked? What's the pool? Was this a survey at a socially inept University or did they ask hundreds of millions of people around the world? Again, scrutinise you...

I decided to delete it. Cause it's nothing but depressing if you see where the people who were with you in school are now with their lives and you can't even get a job despite your qualifications....

70% of men 18-29 are single. That is just a fact. I have no idea why you think its "bullshit generalised statistic". People who have poor views of women date all the time. Look at how many drug deale...

Please try to get some type of speech therapy. I did during my high school years and the difference between my sister that didn't get it ( and hasn't yet) is huge. It's not something to be ashamed of ...

The cope by people in this sub is insane. Of course your chances reduce. You will need to be 3-4 times better than normal guys in other areas like money, charisma and status to compete. That is the ...

Naw man, only you can hold yourself back. I have a mild stutter and I am 8 years into a relationship with the girl who was my high school crush. I was an infantryman in the army, and have been a softw...

I can tell you what I got out of speech therapy. In public school: Time away from class In my teens (professional speech therapy): little to nothing. In my 20s (professional speech therapy): fluen...

Sorry to hear this story, sounds terrible. How was your performance in this software tasks? Were you the one who always gets shit done, were you better employee than others?...

for your next job, don't run away. either ask for accommodation and then get fired and then sue them. or ask for it and get it and continue working there. and since you're suicidal, you need to talk ...

Yep if you have the money try speech therapy. Look at the results of adults vs kids going to speech therapy. For adults is basically worthless but kids actually get benefits. Its now or never. If it...

But the fact you even walked into university says it all you are willing to try and yes there will be stumbles and people may whisper but honestly who cares. You are only 23 there is a world that need...

Hey, one advice that I could give you: don’t fight every battle but find what battle you can win. If speaking up or presenters are not your things, there are may other ways where you can contribute an...

I need advice

I need advice Since birth, I haven't spoken normally. Initially, I had a speech delay, which developed into a stutter. I've always been alone and haven't trusted anyone because I learned from a young ...

OP, I want to echo what Violet says. I’m 35, moderate to severe stutter depending on the day and concoction of anxieties I have coursing through my veins. Senior software engineer leading a team of ...

One positive and encouraging thing you did this year that you’re proud of.

One positive and encouraging thing you did this year that you’re proud of. With 2025 coming to an end, and all of the shit that comes alongside stuttering, I’d love to hear one thing that you felt pro...

Consider Paxil. 10 or 20md daily. It’s for social anxiety. And works like a charm for stuttering. An old school doc started me on it decades ago, I said but I’m not depressed. He said perhaps but yo...