70% of 18 yo 29 year olds where? Who was asked? What's the pool? Was this a survey at a socially inept University or did they ask hundreds of millions of people around the world? Again, scrutinise your statistics. Most "x% of people think..." or "y% of people are..." claims are hugly generalised. They ask like 1,000 people them claim it's everyone. Also, 18 to 29 is a huge age gap. If 70% of 18 to 22 year olds were single I wouldn't be surprised. I have a stutter and have been plenty successful with women. Going to the gym helps change your mind and body. As your mental health improves, you'll find social interactions easier. No one said anything about a 6 pack. You don't need to be a gym rat. But just go. Start running, lift some weights, just have some pride in your appearance. I've always had a bit of a belly but always worked out too. It's fine. 6 figures don't matter. Just have some cash to live like a normal person. From this breif interaction I promise you it's your mental state that's holding you back