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commentr/StutterMar 5, 2020
1 points

Thanks for taking the time to read and respond, it means a lot. My post may have been slightly more dramatic than I wanted. But yes, I am definitely projecting my childhood experience onto his future....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2020
0 points

Thanks for taking time to respond and sharing. I will definitely be looking for more specialized therapists in my area. I might have come across a little more dramatic than I wanted. The floodgate w...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterMar 5, 2020
41 points

stuttering has made me the most awkward person ever

stuttering has made me the most awkward person ever I used to be able to make friends and stuff back in middle school but I feel like In high school I hit a wall because that’s when I started to stutt...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2020
1 points

I think making jokes is worse. You do the setup and when it is the time to say the punchline, you stutter hard. :(...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2020
1 points

Psych ward nursing assistant. :) It works good for the most part, I stutter and try not to care about it. People know im a stutterer so its no secret. The only thing that feels bad is that I can think...

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Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2020
1 points

Delivery processor ar tk maxx. I'm behind the scenes and never have to use the phone. We do use headsets to communicate with each other though and 99% of the time I'm fine, but that one time I stutter...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2020
5 points

As a stutterer, I would say that it’s kind of pointing out the obvious. I don’t know that I’d necessarily be offended as I’m older and realize people are curious. However, envision every person you...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2020
1 points

Sometimes I do as well. I feel like I cannot date a girl due to my stutter. The lasr girl that i made friend with critized my acttions and my stutter but I felt like she was trying to help my stutter ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterFeb 29, 2020
3 points

But still, having an asshole detector and no ability to shut it off sucks. Rejection stings. Yes, he was an asshole but I’m sorry he was so rude about it...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterFeb 27, 2020
74 points

Had an interview today and i wanna die rn.

Had an interview today and i wanna die rn. Had an interview for a big firm today. Was really looking forward to having a good one and hoping my achievements and GPA will fill up the blocks of my speec...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
postr/StutterFeb 26, 2020
41 points

I don’t think I can do it anymore

I don’t think I can do it anymore i feel like i’m at an all time low. i don’t think i can deal with the constant blocks i get while telling a story or the weird stares i get when i’m choking and out o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2020
1 points

Personally i hate it when ppl say “ oh its cute... or.. i like ppl who stutter”! I find it just away some ppl use to show sympathy! I dont know it just annoys me....

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2020
1 points

I annoy myself when I stutter. I’m sure others feel the same way....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2020
1 points

Either "that's condescending" or "easy for them to say, they don't actually have to live with the inability to get words out"...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2020
1 points

I had an ex who, in very serious situations, would start laughing at my stutter. She always said she loved it and how cute of a face I made when trying to get the words out, but by the end it was “you...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2020
0 points

Yeah, no, you’re being super invalidating. I can’t help what I feel, and I’m tired of people analyzing my stutter. Whether people “like” my stutter or not, it is what it is, and I’d rather they not br...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2020
1 points

“Bullshit, Vivienne. Bullshit” Something I wish could be removed from me like a disease is never likeable. Speaking without feeling like a burden is likeable. Not me. I could never....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2020
3 points

It’s like someone saying I like your car when in reality your car breaks down everyday and you hate it....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2020
1 points

I’ve always felt like they were patronizing me. Telling me how likeable it was when in reality it will just be a ploy used by everyone around me to use against me, eventually.Seeing how differently I ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2020
11 points

Personally I have a voice crack at the end of a lot of my sentences, or blocks. 20 F here not a pubescent boy- lol. But my husband pointed it out when we first started talking and I was mortified b/c ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride