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commentr/StutterOct 14, 2019
2 points

One thing that you can do is when he is talking and you notice he is about to stutter (realize how he starts to speed up a bit) just tell him “hey your starting to stutter, can you say that over again...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight
postr/StutterOct 12, 2019
32 points

I could speak fluently for 6 days (So there is hope for you!)

I could speak fluently for 6 days (So there is hope for you!) Here's a bit of hope for my fello stutterers. I am a stutterer, and I get blocks very very regularly. But last year, I had a week of pure...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 11, 2019
1 points

Keep talking fluently alone as much as you can. 20-30 minutes a day is good. The more we can reinforce the fluent part of our brain the easier it is to talk fluently with others. Then, try to use th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringFluency Techniques
postr/StutterOct 10, 2019
7 points

My stutter it's been getting worse when I talk out loud.

My stutter it's been getting worse when I talk out loud. So i'v heard some people say that talking in front of the mirror or talking to yourself out loud is gonna help your stutter,so I decided imma t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Overthinking & MonitoringExperiential AssociationSeverity & Fluctuation
postr/StutterOct 10, 2019
7 points

Need some advice

Need some advice So I've been going to clinical speech therapy for a few months now. I'm about 70% stutter free in the clinic and at home. Problem is, every time I'm outside at work (very friendly env...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2019
1 points

I feel like voluntary stuttering completely throws my mental discipline off of the rails (multi-track drifting?!?)....

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2019
12 points

I connect deeply with what you say here. So many times I have used different words or phrases to avoid stuttering, only to feel a sense of "moral failure" afterwards--why didn't I say exactly what I m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & Weight+1 more
postr/StutterOct 8, 2019
45 points

Does anyone feel this way?

Does anyone feel this way? I always feel as though I’m not doing the best at describing my thoughts. The words that I use in particular always feel, after the fact, like I could’ve used better ones. I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment+1 more
postr/StutterOct 7, 2019
42 points

Had a horrendous phone interview, please talk me down lol

Had a horrendous phone interview, please talk me down lol I’ve been unemployed for two weeks and got a phone interview for a great front desk position at a 5 star medical office. I’ve done front desk...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 6, 2019
1 points

What if it’s not your stutter what if what you’re adding to the conversation is hard to riff off? I know the feeling you’re talking about but after it happens I think about it and I can’t think of s...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Propositionality & WeightOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterOct 6, 2019
2 points

Group conversations are hard as hell for me as well. I know what I’m supposed to do, but it’s hard, so I often am quiet. Generally what gets me anywhere is if I really plan out something I will say. ...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Audience Scale & Group SizeOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 6, 2019
4 points

from my own experience i wouldn’t even use past tense and say that i felt exactly the same, instead i’d use present continuous. something that is honestly starting overwhelm me is that i’ve been goi...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingLoneliness & IsolationOverthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterOct 6, 2019
54 points

I find it EXTREMELY difficult to gain respect and be assertive. I don't feel like a "man".

I find it EXTREMELY difficult to gain respect and be assertive. I don't feel like a "man". I'd like to believe I'm a well dressed and well presented person. I keep clean and put effort into how I appe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 5, 2019
2 points

Becoming conscious of your thoughts and feelings is an incredibly important step. Often, we just feel the feeling (e.g. fear) and run before we are even fully aware why. It's hard to explain this in a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterOct 3, 2019
39 points

What has helped me the most over the years

What has helped me the most over the years Hey everybody. I'm a 42yo and have stuttered for as long as I remember. When I was younger it absolutely controlled me and affected my relationships, persona...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 2, 2019
1 points

This. It is like a mirror, helping you to become more self aware. It is also unpleasant at first. At least for me it was....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterOct 1, 2019
2 points

Too much thinking makes its worse, your trying too hard not to stutter which causes you to get frustrated and stutter even more. But it's also important for people to understand what your saying so I ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterSep 30, 2019
2 points

What techniques/tips do u use to control your speech impediment?

What techniques/tips do u use to control your speech impediment? My speech issue includes speaking very fast and rushing through where people can't understand, disfluency where parts of what I'm sayin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringSeverity & FluctuationFluency Techniques+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2019
1 points

One person in this thread used the "chicken or egg" question- and that is a good one. There are studies that suggest pws are more sensitive than non pws. If we are not taking meds, than we start to ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringExperiential AssociationTrauma & Psychological+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 28, 2019
1 points

''think before you speak'' thats exactly what I do, I think of how to phrase sentences differently to not stutter. He may as well tell us ''just speak properly lol''...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring