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commentr/StutterJul 2, 2024
16 points

It’s also super difficult because people don’t understand that stuttering is not a cognitive disability. I’ve seen a lot of people approach me to try to talk to me but freak out once I answer them. I ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social JudgmentTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2024
-4 points

I don’t think it’s something that should be brought up in this sub honestly. I do think women have it slightly easier in some ways but that doesn’t make their stutter any less of an issue. Men are exp...

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Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2024
7 points

That last part is so ridiculous. Where I am, I’m average looking by Latina standards, but that doesn’t stop guys in my uni that I’m interested in from walking away when they notice my stutter. Doesn’t...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & RomanceShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2024
3 points

Its the truth tbh in the dating world at leaat. I'd love to try and talk to girls more, but I can barely even get the first few words out without looking like a creep or freak because of this fucking ...

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Dating & RomanceHelplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2024
21 points

"The "burden" society places on men is bigger than that of women. The burden of performance on men is greater than that of a woman." Yes, men have burdens placed on them by society, but so do woman. ...

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commentr/StutterJul 1, 2024
2 points

A lot of us have been through this, you're not alone. I've had interviews where they have even smirked after stuttering Keep trying. Eventually you will find people who understand you for your skill...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentValidation & EmpathyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2024
3 points

I agree when you truly talk with enjoyment and enthusiasm, you would never stutter. Because for me stuttering happens out of hesitations and fears...

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Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJul 1, 2024
51 points

Never going to get a job

Never going to get a job I can't do this anymore. I just bombed another phone interview. I graduated two years ago, and I'm still jobless. I can't seem to get past the initial phone screening interv...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2024
2 points

I'm a stutterer with social anxiety disorder and I'm also scared that I'm gonna die alone :/...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2024
2 points

I feel you brother, it hurts me bad too to speak my mind with family or strangers, even though that your family might be supportful, but still... it feels wrong. I hope we all get rid of it....

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/stutteringJun 30, 2024
2 points

That’s common for many people think that our strutter is cause by being nervous rather. Then being nervous increasing the stutter, thinking about what we want to say exactly never helps....

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Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/stutteringJun 30, 2024
1 points

I feel like I stutter the most when I'm trying my best not to. Each time I try think about what I'm about to say, sends my anxiety through the roof. I absolutely hate stuttering and I've always been t...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2024
13 points

Happily married with a stunning wife. The more you overthink the stutter and doubt yourself the more you stutter and the less your chance to meet someone. Start not caring what people think. It helped...

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commentr/StutterJun 30, 2024
3 points

I've been feeling the same past couple of days. I'll soon have to do more speaking than usual, and the thought of this brings me down. It's like, why me? Why do I struggle to talk? Why do my days have...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterJun 30, 2024
52 points

Has anyone found love?

Has anyone found love? One of my deepest fears is that I’ll never find romantic love because of my stutter. This thought causes a lot of anxiety and depression. I was wondering if anyone with a stut...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & HopelessnessDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2024
2 points

I get annoyed with communication in general and that’s what brings us all here haha. But I was just saying people generally will make fun of the person who stutters. NOT ALWAYS. But through my persona...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2024
1 points

Eh so what?..you'll find other guys that accept you. Your a teenager and I know it seems impossible but you can get over it. He may have just meant that he likes your personality. But I promise he's n...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging
postr/StutterJun 30, 2024
0 points

I found someone who I could actually have a conversation with…only for him to be a total scumbag

I found someone who I could actually have a conversation with…only for him to be a total scumbag I met my crush on vacation, and we hung out for four days. I'm a socially anxious person, but with him...

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Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJun 30, 2024
1 points

I finally found someone who I could talk to…only for him to be a total scumbag

I finally found someone who I could talk to…only for him to be a total scumbag As a stutterer, I’ve always found it so hard to cultivate friendships, much less romantic relationships. I met my crush ...

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Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2024
5 points

Is it weird to say I think I've experienced this or something like it? It felt as though the top of my head wasn't cloudy, something I wasn't even aware of, them a bit of pressure on me left eye, I wa...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment