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commentr/StutterMay 21, 2024
27 points

Yes. Theme throughout my life, whether knowing information/answers at school and not being able to take part in class, to not engaging fully in work discussions, to simple daily interactions like you...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2024
2 points

If all doesn’t work out try out talking to chatgpt, talks like a human lol, but it’s obviously different to talking to an actual human...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2024
1 points

Oh and no advice for zoom / phone interviews bc I absolutely refuse to do them 😂 my stutter is so bad over the phone without being able to see the other person. Maybe just stick to in-person!...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2024
2 points

It’s probably giving you a false safe space so you don’t have to actually interact with people you’re romantically interested in because you can just jork off instead. It’s definitely holding you back...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2024
2 points

I stutter in Mandarin and English. I start to learn Japanese, but I don't think language really matter as a way to avoiding stuttering...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2024
1 points

That’s a good point about interviews, I always disclose at the beginning of an interview that I stutter but not in an apologetic way but in a “matter of fact” way. For stressful situations, of course...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2024
2 points

I feel this so much. My native language is Russian and I stutter horribly when I speak in it. English is very bad also but not as bad as Russian. It absolutely kills me....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2024
3 points

Idk but I started watching porn & got really into it as a addiction because I couldn't get girls as a result of stuttering. As I got older I started getting escorts because trying to get regular girls...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2024
7 points

I stutter in all 3 languages: English (native), Spanish & Turkish I've interviewed many guests on my podcast who said that their native language was less (Stuttering) than the new language....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterMay 20, 2024
1 points

What word you say most which help you in speaking

What word you say most which help you in speaking i heard that ice cube when says f word a lot , it helps him to reduce stutters , from that i tried to used similar way for my Algerian dialect , " ki ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionStrategic Swearing/Cursing
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2024
1 points

Im not billingual but i follow the English content lot and i stutter in my Algerian dialect while not in english and arabic , i think the reason is english is easy is just 26 letters and most letters ...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Severity & FluctuationAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2024
2 points

Listeners might perceive autistic traits in our 'stutter behavior': * We (stutterers) might rehearse scripts for social scenarios. Not because we actually have autism, rather because we might feel mo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & Weight+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2024
3 points

I mean I guess it could be? A coping mechanism can honestly be anything, especially considering the severity of your stuttering. Just any distraction to avoid feeling what you're feeling....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2024
3 points

You can practice with in it cuz you shouldn't stutter in a dirty talk...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2024
2 points

**Problem:** * However, I think it's very difficult to check whether stuttering behavior are due to having autism. * Example: * a person who diagnoses a stutterer for autism, might find that we have ...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Medicalization / NeurodiversityNeurological & BrainAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2024
2 points

I think stuttering and features of autism have similarities.. I argue, that specialists who diagnose people - to check whether they are autistic, might not correctly understand the stuttering disorder...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Medicalization / NeurodiversityNeurological & BrainAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
postr/StutterMay 20, 2024
8 points

Porn as a coping mechanism for stuttering?

Porn as a coping mechanism for stuttering? Is it possible that I used porn to cope with my stutter/speech blocks? I was (and still am actually) so frustrated about my speech blocks which happened basi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceMeds & Substances
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2024
3 points

You can try to elongate your words. It'll be very subtle and people won't really notice that you're doing it. Instead of just saying "that", you'll say "thattt" and you will notice how easy words will...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2024
3 points

Hard to stutter when all you say is "pss, pss, pss"....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2024
2 points

Yep. Nowadays I'm trying more and more to slow down and not try to force it out. I've found that trying to force it makes the block worse and worse. It's still a work in progress but I hope one day I ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesShame & Embarrassment+1 more