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commentr/StutterJul 6, 2024
8 points

You’re overthinking this. Your stutter most likely had nothing to do with what happened. So many other reasons why it might’ve went down like that....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJul 6, 2024
0 points

Have any of you guys experienced this?

Have any of you guys experienced this? Do any of you guys wonder if a woman/man says she's in a relationship because she's turned off by your stutter? Today I (18M) was out running at the beach when...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJul 6, 2024
0 points

Exactly! If you have blocks when talking to people and the only thing causing the problem is fear of others judging you, practicing by yourself will have no positive impact....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJul 6, 2024
9 points

Phone Calls

Phone Calls Hello, I just spoke to an old friend on the phone. She immediately asked to speak on the phone and although I was hesitant (for obvious reasons), I agreed and stuttered a lot. Had a lot o...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterJul 6, 2024
3 points

Same i,m facing this issue currently and sometimes my family sends me to buy something from market and I can't even 3 eggs or 1 kg sugar and shopkeeper just looking at me and thinking i,m dumb and whe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterJul 6, 2024
7 points

Stuttering is a complex issue that involves fear, anxiety, low confidence, and a lower quality of lifestyle. While speech therapy can help improve your speech, the effects often fade after a few days ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsTherapy & Professional
Anxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of LifeSeeking Therapy
postr/StutterJul 6, 2024
13 points

Is speech therapy worth it? Worth the cost?

Is speech therapy worth it? Worth the cost? I'm almost nearing my 30s/F and I have never been to speech therapy. I don't speak in English to my parents but rather in Vietnamese and I definitely feel ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAdvice RequestsAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2024
2 points

I mean, it checks out. I have ADHD and anxiety. Pretty typical for most people to suffer with some cognitive distortions as well....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2024
6 points

I’ve been wondering this too. Our family and friends will know our (speech) struggles and judge us kindly. Who gives an f what anyone else thinks? Life is too short to worry about what other’s think o...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJul 5, 2024
5 points

Watching Biden with Stephanopoulous…

Watching Biden with Stephanopoulous… Is this my future? I can keep it together, with a combo of word substitution and creative pausing, but when I’m 80, will I seem like a senile mess?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & Fluctuation+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2024
2 points

Smile, make eye contact, focus on non-verbal cues and body language. The listener will mirror your reaction to your stutter. If you appear uncomfortable, the listener will appear uncomfortable. But i...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2024
1 points

26 yo & for some reason I stutter even tough I’m not shy to talk to people. I talk pretty well with family members but every time I talk to a coworker I seem to miss my words. I’m also not much of a t...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2024
1 points

No. Not every word, but just random enough to scare me and surprise others. It’s really bad when you’re mostly fluent and you see that pitying look in someone’s face who knows you as a non-stutterer....

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social JudgmentSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2024
1 points

*Abstract:* In this presentation, a new theoretical model for the development of stuttering is proposed, based on the principles of cognitive – behaviour theory and our clinical experience with a gre...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterJul 5, 2024
25 points

Hate feeling unable to socialize

Hate feeling unable to socialize I hate when I am trying to hang out with my friends but can’t get any words out. It feels like the time is being wasted as I can’t easily be involved with what’s going...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2024
4 points

Damn man I feel you 100% I am 27 I have depression, anxiety, ADHD, stutter and I am also gay. I have so many issues lol I feel like I am cursed .It is exhausting just being alive, but I don’t want to ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Sadness & HopelessnessAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2024
17 points

I officiated a wedding last summer and spent an inordinate amount of time stressing over it. Catastrophizing each potential moment; each potential stutter. Truthfully, it went fine. Not perfect. No...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
postr/StutterJul 4, 2024
5 points

Toastmasters not for me

Toastmasters not for me Hello, I just signed up to become a toastmaster member and it is the most nerve racking thing. No one around me stutter. Their speech for the most part is fluent. I can’t help ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2024
13 points

Man, that would be my worst nightmare, I think the reason I never ever got married was because saying the vows and stuttering would be to embarrassing for me.. I hope it goes well, I really wish ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
postr/StutterJul 4, 2024
34 points

Best Man Speech

Best Man Speech I've got a best man speech on Saturday week, in front of about 100 people, so so nervous about it. Any advice be appreciated. I'm planning to start it with a joke about my stammer and...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & RehearsalAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more