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commentr/StutterJul 14, 2020
2 points

Thank you so much understanding and being considerate about it. But you’re right it’s not a wuss thing it just usually never happens, no one I talk to points out my stutter like that so I haven’t gott...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2020
4 points

It doesn’t make you a wuss to be upset, stuff like that hurts. Smart move getting out of there though, I would’ve probably done the same thing...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2020
3 points

She apologized but not in person I left the house after to go hangout with friends. I just needed to get away from that environment I kept getting teary eyed not to sound like a wuss....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2020
3 points

I hope she apologized to you. Whether she meant it maliciously or not, she shouldn’t have done that to you...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2020
1 points

No yeah for sure I doubt she meant to say that in a jokingly way she just wanted to see what I was saying. Just at that moment I just wanted nothing to do with her like that really hurt me. But you’re...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2020
6 points

Trust me in my head I felt so disrespected. I’m not sure if we can curse in this thread so i’m going to keep it clean. But I just wanted to tell her to get the heck out of my house if you're gonna tel...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2020
3 points

Yes they all know that’s why I left the room because it was quiet. I didn’t see my dads face i was turned the other way but my sisters boyfriend said he looked bothered when she told me that. And then...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterJul 14, 2020
55 points

Saddened

Saddened Just to keep it short and simple yesterday I went downstairs to go eat with my family. My sisters friend had came over so we began to talk. It was casual talk but then I started speaking to m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2020
3 points

some snobby mom asked “are you stupid?” when i was blocking at work. i was 16 and working at a local flower shop. that took all my confidence, fuck karens....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterJul 14, 2020
17 points

Hardest word

Hardest word The hardest word to get out of my mouth is, sadly, my own name. It is just kind of hurtful yknow. I don't have a bad stammer at all (but it is still clearly noticeable) so I can't really ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterJul 11, 2020
4 points

god damn conversations

god damn conversations yall know why im here. i STUTTER. not to much but enough to be a huge inconvenience, when im bouta stutter i just pause for a few mins so i don't sound lie an idiot. my friend w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & Weight+3 more
postr/StutterJul 10, 2020
3 points

Being a PWS in the Workplace and How to Self-Advocate

Being a PWS in the Workplace and How to Self-Advocate Long time lurker, first time poster. This is piggybacking on the post asking the community if their stutter was used against them in a professio...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & Weight+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2020
2 points

That sucks, there's nothing a stranger can say to bother me, but it's incredibly easy if it comes from a loved one....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
2 points

The worst comment I’ve had is that someone thought I was on drugs when I told them my name. They were asking what I took, if I’m okay, I told them I’m not on anything and they laughed and walked away...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
2 points

Tw: beatings I'll use a throwaway. Got bullied at primary school from age 7-12. It started because I had a stutter. Teachers didn't react but they knew. We had 1 teacher per year (September to the ...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingTrauma & PsychologicalShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
3 points

Got in front of the class to do a presentation, couldn't say anything else after the first sentence. I just told the professor I wasn't ready and went back to my seat. I was so embarrassed....

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Public SpeakingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
1 points

I'm glad you find that comforting. I think it depends on the sort of look. Like sometimes they can look impatient or god forbid bored. Maybe confused, which I suppose is understandable. I'm not alwa...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
2 points

When stuttering, I normally look away - down at the floor or off into space. It means so much when I look back at the person and see that they're still engaged with me. So often they'll have decided ...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
2 points

I've had this experience. When I run into someone I haven't seen in years on a good day where I'm not stuttering as much sometimes they'll say "you don't stutter anymore! it used to be so cute when yo...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
6 points

I was taking a Communications class at the local Community College one summer to get that requirement out of the way. At the end of the semester we had to give a five minute speech to the class on a t...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Public SpeakingShame & Embarrassment