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commentr/StutterDec 21, 2016
1 points

I'm 100% hiding it. The people closest to me with whom I talk constantly will more than likely notice *something* in my speech patterns that's off. All that I've heard is that (at my worst) I'll pause...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 21, 2016
2 points

First off, you replied to a comment I made in response to a question I was asked from someone else. To avoid confusion, don't ask an unrelated question under a parent comment. Second, I'm not sure I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2016
1 points

If "virtually" no one knows you stutter, then you're either lying to yourself or you're hiding from everyone around you. Doesn't really sound that appealing to be honest....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 17, 2016
2 points

That's great. If you can get past the anxiety and say what you intend to say, that is the most important thing. I went to a two week intensive (AIS in NYC) where they really stressed the importance of...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2016
2 points

This is what I experienced. My stutter itself hasn't diminished, but I feel more talkative and less conscious about it. So it does help your fluency because a fundamental goal in speech therapy for st...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2016
1 points

It's good to hear it is possible - I'm still at the stage where I need to *stop caring*. It seems like the biggest hurdle. ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Authenticity vs. MaskingMindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2016
1 points

Yeah confidence issues can block flow of speech. But it's also important to know how speech occurs which is naturally. NOT by force or techniques when u consciously move your tounge in taught ways to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 4, 2016
2 points

Are you me? Modeling stuttering after others / feeling it's a developed behavior rather than innate. Mute through high school, girlfriend opened you up, sunk deep into WoW. Played guitar. Better spee...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkTherapy & Professional
Authenticity vs. MaskingSchool & Academic LifeTherapy Experiences+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2016
3 points

I've been starting to take this approach when it comes to presentations. I used to practice my lines to the point where I had memorized every word I was going to say. This is a basic presentation tech...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. MaskingPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2016
2 points

I tend to agree with you, this is the final mindset one has to achieve IMO, be completely stress-free about your stuttering and say whatever the fuck you want to say. But it's very hard to achieve tha...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2016
2 points

I wouldn't. Agree with most people on here, it's a big deal for others only if you let them know it's a big deal to you(and it is, it's the only deal isn't it?). Keep 'me guessing and profit....

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2016
2 points

I wouldn't. Agree with most people on here, it's a big deal for others only if you let them know it's a big deal to you (and it is, it's the only deal isn't it?). Keep 'em guessing and profit....

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2016
1 points

I really don't know how to approach it. I've been hiding for so long that I can't imagine just being completely open..I guess just start talking! ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2016
1 points

I personally wouldn't. I've found that people will react to the fact that you stutter based on how you do. If you act like you have a disability, people will treat you like you do too. If you're open ...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2016
1 points

Indeed, no one is completely fluent, not even non-stutterers, in all honesty. Rather, the real goal should be to minimize its impact on your life, and therefore eventually overcome its control over yo...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2016
1 points

There is a difference between talking more and talking more. Talking more because it's required from you (at the job) won't really help, I agree. But talking more because you just let yourself go and ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterOct 25, 2016
23 points

Anyone else feel like they're extravert but are held back by stuttering?

Anyone else feel like they're extravert but are held back by stuttering? I don't consider myself an introvert at all. I genuinely enjoy talking to lots of people and initiating conversations and appro...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 24, 2016
0 points

The third option is stopping the war and winning the fight. For as long as stuttering is a problem to you, it will continue to be a problem. If you're always fighting it, you will always be fighting i...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 18, 2016
2 points

Meditation, yoga, developing a heightened sense of awareness, disconnecting from your mind, focusing on the present moment...all ways to have the same results but in a sober state. ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindfulness & BreathingAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 18, 2016
2 points

Because your anxiety isn't on your mind, you aren't thinking about the stutter so you speak mostly fluently. One of the worst aspects of stuttering in my opinion...if only we could forget we have it...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking