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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2025
0 points

I won’t be accepting these comments either. >”You’re scared to have an actual conversation in person because you can’t even talk” Do you not hear yourself right now……like, genuinely. OF COURSE IF Y...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
5 points

Oh yeah lets just take a stroll down the acceptance path like its so fucking easy to undo years of being made fun of, laughed in our faces, and treated as lesser than for an disability we can't easily...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
13 points

I cured my stutter in my 20s! (Just kidding, I only convinced myself I did by becoming extremely covert about it to the point of being selectively mute and an all around miserable human being)....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
2 points

I've tried breathing exercises in past therapies but unfortunately they never really did much for me. Speech tools to actually manage the stuttering in combination with things like reading aloud and m...

Coping & AdvocacyTherapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Mindfulness & BreathingTherapy ExperiencesPositive Therapy Techniques+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
3 points

I stutter and I always felt inferior because of it. I mean sure it ruined my life but this was oddly inspiring. Although, it also reminded me of that one time when someone asked me if I try to rap....

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Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
4 points

Unfortunately I'm 62 now, I've never accepted my stutter, and at my age I never will now. been totally embarrassed and ashamed of it, and in turn it's made me feel that way about myself,.. It destr...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
2 points

Yeah ok I understand where you are coming from now. I agree with you that it's kind of a gaslight to tell somebody else that their stutter isn't a big deal....

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
2 points

I understand what you're trying to say. I too have been coming across posts that call out those who were trying to vent, labelling it as demotivating. Even though it could be looked down upon as disco...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
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postr/StutterOct 22, 2025
4 points

Making friends

Making friends Hi I need advice. I will explain in detail so maybe the post is going to be long I'm a freshman. Since college started I didn’t try to talk to anyone or make friends because I really h...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
2 points

I have never seen a post here of someone saying suicide is a good thing and promoting it here. I have seen people saying dumb shit like "stuttering is a gift", " I am glad I have a stutter and I would...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
1 points

That’s not least favorite thing about stuttering. Coming off as rude because I don’t respond to a question fluently and it comes off as I’m just ignoring someone lol...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
5 points

Let's use your same reasoning but instead of stuttering, lets say we're talking about seizures. Why isn't the focus on the observer effect when a person has a seizure? Is it the interpretation of th...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
2 points

Same here and some will say we just don't know what it is to be severe and get hated on.  ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
1 points

Completely wrong and off the topic. There is no speciality of being human. Even animals can also decide how to react. But thousands years of human evolution is the one deciding how will we react, if w...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
12 points

You're doing the same thing. You're downplaying people's experiences, including suicidal thoughts (and no I won't censor this word because I'm not a fucking child). You're saying how stuttering is an...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
16 points

Still not an argument. Most stutterers are miserable, and you complaining about their complaints just proves them right....

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Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 20, 2025
1 points

I know it's hard and it's contributing to your anxiety when you stutter in front of someone, especially when you are younger, but accepting this flaw in us is a step in the right direction. There are ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideShame & EmbarrassmentLoneliness & Isolation
postr/StutterOct 20, 2025
18 points

Disclosing your stammer to a partner

Disclosing your stammer to a partner Hi everyone! Wanted to ask about advice regarding disclosing your stammer to a potential partner during a talking stage. I’ve been doing everything possible to avo...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 20, 2025
1 points

That's been my case for 25 years., it's not a good strategy because it's been making me even more anxious. Now I'm accepting it a bit more. They say acceptance is the first part for a treatment, I hop...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideShame & EmbarrassmentHumor & Community Tone
postr/StutterOct 20, 2025
6 points

VENT/RANT MEGATHREAD

VENT/RANT MEGATHREAD Hello all, Stuttering can really suck sometimes. It can feel unfair, embarrassing, depressing, and rage inducing. Going forward let’s contain all of that to this thread so we ca...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerShame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness