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commentr/StutterSep 16, 2025
1 points

I met mine online on Coffee Meets Bagel. I couldn’t care less that he stutters....

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Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2025
2 points

thank you for the positivity! im definitely going to have a meeting for the shuffler job. its actually funny you mention dating! it tends to come easy for me- maybe men like "hopeless litte bunnies ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2025
3 points

At work. We both worked at a gas station. We got to know each other by working. I remember stuttering soooo much when I asked him out 😭 but he seemed chill so I knew he wouldn't make a deal about my ...

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commentr/StutterSep 15, 2025
1 points

U can always pay for it so u wont be a virgin if that is so important for u. There are bigger things in life than sex. Dating as a male is extremely hard these days. Stuttering makes it 100x times har...

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Dating & RomanceHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2025
11 points

I just asked a chick out on a date today at a restaurant I frequent. This condition doesn’t have to define us my man just live your life....

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commentr/StutterSep 14, 2025
4 points

Any way people date can be a crapshoot. All most people can do is just put themselves out there and get rejected a lot. That can sting worse with a stutter. That being said, you shouldn't introduce ...

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commentr/StutterSep 14, 2025
2 points

I’m just speaking from my experience, i’m an average looking guy and I’ve had no issues with dating apps, guess it just comes down to the person. Depends on what you class as cold approaching too, you...

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commentr/StutterSep 14, 2025
8 points

Online dating js difficult enough for non stutterers, let alone stutterers. Getting a match on online dating apps is very difficult. I’m not complaining about it, but it isn’t really a “fix” to the is...

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commentr/StutterSep 14, 2025
10 points

Tbh bro, i feel like a cold in-person approach will rarely work for a stutterer. 1. Because they’re gonna be attractive so you’ll be nervous and 2. The girl will think you’re more nervous than what yo...

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postr/StutterSep 14, 2025
18 points

Where does a stutterer even meet potential partners?

Where does a stutterer even meet potential partners? I’ve had a really bad stutter ever since my childhood. It’s led to me being really socially reclusive, as gradually as the years oasses the embarra...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness+2 more
commentr/StutterSep 13, 2025
2 points

1. Believe in yourself. Give yourself credit too. 2. Dont project your insecurities on your girl this soon. Dont act weak this desperately. 3. Now you know she is caring, win her over with your care...

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commentr/StutterSep 12, 2025
2 points

Bruh don’t sabotage yourself, give it a good go. If she doesn’t like you, then her loss. If she’s asked you to stay over, she already likes you in some form. If she’s still speaking to you after hear...

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commentr/StutterSep 12, 2025
25 points

Bruh you're too in your head. All you need is experience. More dates. More getting burned. More more more. This will all get easier. Just GO. She likes you and doesn't care about your stutter, but she...

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postr/StutterSep 12, 2025
20 points

This girl I like got me food and I'm really worried

This girl I like got me food and I'm really worried 21M here. I've been talking to someone online for few months now. We had our fair share of video calls, voice calls and stuff. I got really sick ye...

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commentr/StutterSep 12, 2025
7 points

It’s a pretty shitty ailment some of us have been dealt. I hear you my man. Don’t lose faith. There are plenty of awesome partners who will not think your stutter is a dealbreaker. Be yourself and...

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postr/StutterSep 12, 2025
34 points

Being a stutterer at 23 years old

Being a stutterer at 23 years old My friends label me autistic. I've been made fun of my entire life. I've never been taken seriously by girls. I've never had a girlfriend before, and I fell into depr...

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postr/StutterSep 12, 2025
1 points

Being a stutterer at 23 years old

Being a stutterer at 23 years old My friends label me autistic. I've been made fun of my entire life. I've never been taken seriously by girls. I've never had a boyfriend before, and I fell into depre...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2025
1 points

I genuinely don't think it's a big deal. If someone likes every part of you but draws the line at stuttering something you can't control than they're not the one and probably a bad person in general. ...

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commentr/StutterSep 8, 2025
1 points

There it is…you don’t *really* believe in rating women 1-10. And no, we all do not date off looks in the way you think. Let me explain. I do occasionally use dating apps and will not consider s...

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Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2025
0 points

Also, no. I haven't been single 6 years in my prime because I am sooo picky someone's looks. I don't think i'm the best looking person but I take care of myself. I look far better now then in my late ...

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Helplessness & AgencyDating & Romance