commentr/StutterSeptember 8, 2025

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Also, no. I haven't been single 6 years in my prime because I am sooo picky someone's looks. I don't think i'm the best looking person but I take care of myself. I look far better now then in my late teen to early 20's but for some reason dating became impossible post 2018. Granted I havnt done absolutely everything in my power or tried all dating apps but just so you get the pictures it is incredibly hard to even go on a date and when you do it seems like the person doesn't really care. You talk about isolation but imagine not even really having the option to date because of womens warped beauty standards that only become worse and worse. I am healthy, I take care of myself, workout, and have a lot of odd and interesting hobbies. I am not unattractive considering the women I have dated. I personally have no idea how attractive women see me because it feels like for the past 6 years they just dont. Try putting yourself into my shoes and into the shows of the vast majority of men to understand where we come from and why we think the things we do. Next time you isolated or lonely, you at least know you can look around. We feel not even wanted.

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Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships

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Helplessness & AgencyDating & Romance