There it is…you don’t *really* believe in rating women 1-10. And no, we all do not date off looks in the way you think. Let me explain. I do occasionally use dating apps and will not consider someone who’s pics are the same boring bathroom/blank-wall selfies, or if they are wearing clothes in their picture associated with a lifestyle inconsistent with mine (suit/tie, heavy laborer). I avoid very well-toned or overly groomed men. In person, I get to see how you react, laugh, and interact with others. And I always consider being friends first, and can get to know personality next. I’d otherwise feel bad if the rest of your message wasn’t littered with incel nonsense