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postr/StutterAug 13, 2025
10 points

My mom's in denial of my stutter after 15 years. I need to remember what she won't.

My mom's in denial of my stutter after 15 years. I need to remember what she won't. I (23F) was shocked when my mom said "you never stuttered" after I told her I was finally making progress with my s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentGenetic & Family FactorsTrauma & Psychological+3 more
postr/StutterAug 9, 2025
10 points

Is there any online group to practice speaking or does anyone want to chat one on one ?

Is there any online group to practice speaking or does anyone want to chat one on one ? 26 M here, I’ve had a stutter since childhood and with times especially in my 20s it has gotten worse. I know so...

Community & SupportIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Advice RequestsAuthenticity vs. MaskingFriendships & Belonging
postr/StutterAug 8, 2025
1 points

Communicate with person that stutter

Communicate with person that stutter Hello, I am looking for someone that would love to communicate with me on phone calls. When I talk alone I don't tutter, but when am with people I stutter. If yo...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingExperiential Association
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2025
1 points

It’s a process. A long, long process. You have to commit to speaking in uncomfortable situations, stuttering openly, and—most importantly—telling people that you stutter. Over time (meaning years or d...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityTherapy & Professional
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2025
2 points

Yes, do it. Never avoid doing something because of your stuttering. That's when it starts running your life....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2025
5 points

I would argue that desensitization should be done to take control of your life as opposed to letting stuttering control you. But yes, fluency can be a byproduct. It's a very nuanced topic that I can...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2025
1 points

A lot of people who dont stutter but only speak one language, usually English (and white 🙄), and havent done anything significant in life act like theyre better than everyone else. Here you are speak...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-PerceptionSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2025
1 points

A lot of people who dont stutter but only speak one language, usually English (and white 🙄), and havent done anything significant in life act like theyre better than everyone else. Here you are speak...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-PerceptionSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2025
2 points

I will offer some advice. Off the cuff. Not professional. Sounds like this is always on your mind. Set yourself some boundaries. Start small. Everyday at X time, I will refrain from thinking about my...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2025
1 points

I know! I hate it so much, too, and countless times I've thought: "This person has literally nothing intelligent to say, yet they never even question it because they're fluent." It drives me mad, but ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2025
2 points

hey thanks for your comment i hate the fact that i have to do twice the effort to do something looks normal to others. what is killling me that i know for sure i am better than many interns in the fi...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2025
1 points

The only limitations are the ones we put on ourselves don’t let it hold you back when I was your age my stutter incredibly bad I let it control my life. Public speaking is hard for everyone. But I’ll ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringMindset shiftHope & Motivation+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 30, 2025
5 points

100000% YES. I was a Prefect in school and that meant a lot of speeches. I also did debating from grade 8. Yes I stuttered, sometimes people laughed, it is what it is… i dont even remember it. What I ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringMindset shiftHope & Motivation+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 30, 2025
7 points

Neurological predisposition to stutter + anxiety/stress = stuttering. What you describe about not stuttering by yourself is extremely common. Stuttering has an approach-avoidance element. You want...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Neurological & BrainStress & Fight/FlightVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 30, 2025
2 points

You have done what a lot of us are sacred to do so be proud of yourself and know that you can't change your way of talking , its who you are and there are absolutely nothing wrong with that. I used t...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 30, 2025
1 points

I currently go through the same thing and it’s so frustrating and embarrassing at times . But speech is slowly getting better because i am currently modeling someone else speaking style . Slow down li...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterJul 30, 2025
14 points

I try to apply avoidance reduction method to overcome my fear of stuttering. Here is my experience.

I try to apply avoidance reduction method to overcome my fear of stuttering. Here is my experience. I largely agree with the principles of **Avoidance Reduction Therapy (ART),** especially its focus o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesTherapy Experiences+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 30, 2025
2 points

Yes and I never mention it to them. Instead I just give them my attention and don’t interrupt them. I give them their time to speak, don’t make any faces, don’t mock them. I try to make them feel hear...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 28, 2025
1 points

This is also called negative practice. It can be a highly effective approach to increasing fluency. Stuttering is in part an approach-avoidance problem. You want to say something, yet at the same...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterJul 28, 2025
18 points

I can’t keep it out of my head

I can’t keep it out of my head i am (24m) an intern doctor, in work i speak my third language started learning sice last summer, i dont feel comfortable speaking yet and with my stutter the thing is l...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAuthenticity vs. MaskingShame & Embarrassment+1 more