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commentr/StutterSep 19, 2020
2 points

Ahh definitely covert, I'm way too shamed to stammer in front of others. Due to fears of being perceived as strange or mentally challenged...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 19, 2020
5 points

it's true. and then there's the fact that you don't want to be pitied and seen as disabled by people and it's hard for you to stand that you might be (that's the thing which I'm personally working on ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2020
2 points

i’m a girl!! my stutter is pretty mild but i have lots of secondary behaviors that make it kinda severe, none of my friends care so i doubt they would care if a guy they were dating had one too. hones...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2020
4 points

Yes! Or when you actually say something perfectly fluent but they didn’t hear you and ask you to repeat it. So much worse when they’re staring right at you intently listening the second time....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2020
4 points

When I finally get out what I'm trying to say and the person I'm talking to says they didn't understand and asks me to repeat it. Just makes me wanna get up and leave...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterSep 17, 2020
7 points

Pet peeves?

Pet peeves? Might be petty, but I really hate 3 things that people say when it comes to my stutter. - People calling my stutter “cute”. This just irritates me to no end because personally I think I ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterSep 16, 2020
42 points

Hate myself

Hate myself I was talking today and my cousin was mocking me like it’s funny , it’s fucking not .. and when I talk she says it hurts her head to listen to me sometimes , so I’ll just talk less...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterSep 15, 2020
27 points

Being laughed at by adults

Being laughed at by adults Yesterday at school I was asked my name by 2 preschool teachers for a form to be filled in and well surprise surprise I stuttered but what was shocking was the fact that the...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterSep 14, 2020
1 points

I’ve used music therapy to help with my means of expression. I have stuttered all my life and have used music & writing to help express myself in ways I could be proud of. Being a stutterer, expr...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 13, 2020
2 points

I immediately become dejected when I have to repeat it😂 since it was a struggle to say it the first place...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentOverthinking & MonitoringRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterSep 13, 2020
2 points

The worst part about being a stutterer is that you can't even pronounce a word like disability which makes the whole comeback pointless...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 11, 2020
6 points

Same here bro, I used to feel exactly how you feel, here's my story. I have other issues other than stuttering which make people not want to even look at me or try to talk to me. I've always been reje...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
postr/StutterSep 11, 2020
31 points

Vent

Vent Tried to normally buy something then I chocked and stammered, people were looking at me and talking about me right on my face. I wanted to say something back but I knew I'd stammer more and just ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2020
2 points

I'm having the same problem, a friend of mine who is studying logopedie also told me i might have handled the "rest" by mumbling a lot more, which tbf checks out (went to 3 therapists, none ever told ...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesPhysical TensionShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterSep 10, 2020
25 points

My continuing journey with stuttering

My continuing journey with stuttering *Some parts of the following post will be either positive, or neutral. Other parts will be negative. If you are someone who battles with shame - which is ok - ove...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCommunity & Support
Hiding & ConcealmentTrauma & PsychologicalPersonal Stories+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2020
3 points

Yes it doesn't define me, but stuttering it's me. It's really me, it's not just speaking, uttering words it's all my being. That's stuttering, speech isn't some separated phenomen from you, your words...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & FluctuationShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2020
2 points

Lastly. What offends me is knowing there's people that can get word out let alone one syllable. That really have it harder than I do. So when I hear that "diD i StuTteR" shit it annoys me to the core....

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2020
2 points

Yeah exactly, well put. Bullying, sniggering, awkward stares during while I'm working through a block like time is standing still. I've been through some dark times especially as a teenager but I'm 30...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2020
2 points

Do you feel differently because your stuttering is linked to bullying situations? Mine definitely is as well, so I think about other people who feel the same way. Also I know a lot of people with a st...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2020
5 points

Don't like it. But it's not disrespectful I don't think. Just gives me a ick feel in my chest, probably because it's linked to feelings and memories I try to forget....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying