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commentr/StutterJul 30, 2024
3 points

You have to do things that address the actual problem. Silent blocking and fear have nothing to do with being able to articulate the word. It’s based in shame of others hearing your repetitions, so ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2024
2 points

There are actually tangible habits you can learn that will dramatically decrease your fear-blocking. They are free to learn and use, safe, very effective if done properly, but hard and scary....

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Fluency TechniquesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2024
1 points

But how can I make the fear and pressure gone? I trying to think that way but that just doesn’t leave my mind, and I feel that I thought about that so much so I will stutter a lot, on the first time I...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2024
1 points

First time I was with my good friends and that went awful, now I’m with group that I doesn’t know well and I don’t think I will do better I don’t mind peoples, that just so hard to speak I afraid to b...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2024
2 points

I had a similar situation where I had to do training (actually it was training to eventually train others) over a call with multiple people all who were also doing the training. It was where we had to...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & CareerShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2024
5 points

Yea I like poetic movies. So you like Romeo and Juliet.. by Leonardo Dicaprio? Leonardo Dicaprio showed Rick Dalton's stutter in the new Tarantino movie 'Once Upon a Time in Hollywood' it's not always...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Roles & PerformanceAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2024
2 points

To add onto my original post, I also forgot way too much stuff that I had to ask or asked incomplete questions because I was way too tensed because I started to stutter when I attended the call....

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterJul 29, 2024
24 points

I stuttered pretty bad on a work call.

I stuttered pretty bad on a work call. So here is the story, I called the person and had to say pretty basic words but blocked so bad I wasn't able to and got scared and declined the call. After I ca...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social JudgmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJul 28, 2024
3 points

If I get past a block while still feeling afraid then I force it out. I often sound timid and off pitch when I do that. The time delay puts pressure that makes me force it out eventually...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 27, 2024
3 points

Tl:dr The post discusses the author's personal views and experiences on stuttering recovery, emphasizing the concept of subconscious fluency over controlled fluency. Drawing on a theory by Usler, Ph...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 27, 2024
1 points

Hello I’m (35F) and yes I go through this often it’s almost like a block I’m having while trying to speak. I’ve been in speech therapy (didn’t really help) I honestly think it’s anxiety or the over th...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJul 27, 2024
1 points

>no one can make fun of them Oh no, someone made fun of you, what ever shall you do? Stop worrying about what others think about your stutter. If you're that insecure, that's much more of a reason n...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 27, 2024
1 points

What you are saying is harmful. Alcohol, controlled substances, bizarre surgeries and “extreme drugs” will not actually help anybody. I’m sorry you think any of it can help. There are actually safe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 27, 2024
1 points

My stutter is significantly worse when anxious. Celexa is the only drug that I’ve taken that reduces it a bit by reducing my anxiety...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJul 27, 2024
31 points

I am terrified of getting a job

I am terrified of getting a job I (20F) have never had a job before. I've done volunteer work but never held a "normal" paying job. I've overcome a lot of fears, like presenting, and I enjoy talking ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2024
5 points

Dropping the thought that people are making fun of my stutter and deserve to be beaten *has dramatically improved my ability to communicate and made me much calmer* Truth is that most people are prob...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
postr/StutterJul 26, 2024
1 points

Rant about sudden adult onset

Rant about sudden adult onset Hi, everyone! I have pristine perfect and fluent speech, but a year ago my brain somehow suddenly decided to hide this fact. I love speaking, both person-to-person and o...

Speech & StutteringIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Onset & Life-Stage ChangesAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2024
2 points

I would also look into a speech therapist. I wish I had done it when I was younger. Self esteem, bullying and self worth can be hard for stutterers, so encourage her that she’s perfect the way she is,...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Seeking TherapyAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJul 25, 2024
30 points

Just had a very bad interview

Just had a very bad interview Hi everyone, I just had one of the worst interviews of my life. I applied for a sales role at a multinational company in the UK. I have a severe stutter and had to do ...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Listener ReactionsEmployment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2024
1 points

Selective mutism (now more accurately labeled as situational mutism) is not present in most stutterers. The vast majority of people who stutter do not have SM. However, it does happen, and I have wo...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight