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commentr/StutterOct 1, 2020
1 points

you don’t stutter because you avoid all unpleasant worlds. it’s good for short time like interview but on the long path it will ruin you, because of that you feel terrible. try to stutter like normal ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2020
1 points

I completely understand your post. Very few people in my life knows that I stutter. Honestly I struggle to tell people because like you said it seems like a first world problem and also because it’s s...

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commentr/StutterSep 30, 2020
2 points

It's normal. We all do it. Please try not to shame yourself for it. It's not your fault. You're doing the best you can....

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Validation & EmpathyShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2020
0 points

I'm not going to lie, it won't be easy. Most girls will disregard you. But there will be someone who will accept you....

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commentr/StutterSep 30, 2020
3 points

Yes, It happens to me as well. I get uncomfortable when I see someone stutters. It's funny because I myself stutter too... we should support each other, haha...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2020
9 points

I really can't bring myself to watch other people stutter....

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commentr/StutterSep 29, 2020
19 points

I cringed too. Thoughts of myself standing up in English class trying to do oral presentations kept flashing in my head. I felt for Biden but was also proud he just pushed through the stumbles....

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commentr/StutterSep 28, 2020
1 points

i just cried... those tips and story experiences that some people said makes me feel like i'm in a world that everybody understands. it felt comforting so thank you so much. i think i've been doing ...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 27, 2020
3 points

I’m sorry that your Mother doesn’t give you the grace and patience you deserve. That must be so difficult, being that it’s not something you can control. Maybe you should have a conversation with her ...

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Family Support & ConflictAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 26, 2020
3 points

I can feel your pain! This happens to me everyday and others think that I don't know how to speak but changing the words sometimes makes no sense to listeners....

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Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 25, 2020
1 points

He said he was hiding his stutter. When you're a covert stutterer it's not even about how struggled it is or not, it's about not letting anyone know you stutter because of the shame....

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commentr/StutterSep 25, 2020
1 points

i see it as maybe he doesn’t stutter as bad as he thinks. however if he is just simply not talking it isn’t positive...

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commentr/StutterSep 21, 2020
1 points

For me it's more of a laugh of desperation. I realize how bad my situation is and cant help but laugh at how hopeless I am....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterSep 21, 2020
1 points

No I have never. It is a very serious and horrible experience that laughter is nowhere near the forefront of my conscious....

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commentr/StutterSep 21, 2020
2 points

I do this a lot, I find it helps ease the tension and after I've laughed it off the block is gone. Course it's different for everyone though. My boyfriend has dyslexia so we laugh at each others "flaw...

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commentr/StutterSep 21, 2020
1 points

No, I am never able to laugh at my block....

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commentr/StutterSep 20, 2020
2 points

Yeah they probably don't care but it's really hard to not give a fuck at highschool, especially when you see everyone looking at you. I try everytime tho...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 20, 2020
2 points

For me, depending on the situation, sometimes it can be laughed off , other times its nothing to laugh at in my opinion....

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterSep 20, 2020
22 points

My Limitations

My Limitations I have often been described as someone rather mysterious. Curious, observant, hard to figure out, etc. But the truth is, I have hidden myself from others out of shame and disconnection ...

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Hiding & ConcealmentTrauma & PsychologicalShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 20, 2020
13 points

Definitely. Or I laugh because I know I’m going to be laughed at. My stutter is laughed at in my friend group lol...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying