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commentr/StutterNov 24, 2021
19 points

I'm disgusted by this. Seriously, fuck the people who mocked you just to get a few laughs. Thankfully, assholes are a small but very loud minority....

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Stigma & BullyingValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2021
44 points

> and I don't think I will go to school anytime soon, Don't you *dare* surrender to this incident! This is about other people being mean. Don't give them or your stutter power over you. A lot of...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & BullyingAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2021
9 points

As a girl same, idk why when a man tries to bully me i just leave or i ignore it coz i really don't care, but when an other girl does it ouch, right in the feels too, my worst bullies were always girl...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2021
13 points

When a guy mocks you its ok because you can punch him but when a girl says that it kinda shatters your ego. I went through my school days mostly quite because of this. The best thing to do is to let i...

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Stigma & BullyingMindset shiftEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2021
5 points

People can be absolutely crappy and cruel but the good news is that like you said, you have good friends who don't feel the need to mention your stutter nor put you down for it but just tough to find ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social JudgmentValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterNov 24, 2021
107 points

Got bullied for the first time today, I feel like shit.

Got bullied for the first time today, I feel like shit. I've never been bullied in school before. I have normal friends, normal people in my school and they never mentioned anything about my stutter,...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2021
1 points

If a program keeps stopping and starting it is stuttering. The word applies to us, too. It is not "our word" that defined us first and has now been appropriated to describe laggy computers or whatever...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2021
1 points

Nope not joking. I stutter and am surprised at the acceptance of a non-stutterer just throwing the word around....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2021
1 points

But isn't describing the process of stuttering different from a non-stutterer just throwing the word around?...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2021
2 points

I wish i could have but both were highly respected and my school never did shit about there crap teachers one of them straight up creeped on the middle school girls and they wouldn’t do anything...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Stigma & BullyingSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2021
3 points

My parents used to vent to relatives about how no girl is going to accept my stutter. I mean they aren’t wrong(in my culture disability is frowned upon) but it irritates me when I hear that....

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Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2021
2 points

Teachers just straight up not believing I have a stutter. mine started in the middle of my grade nine year drs said it was sudden onset due to trauma. my one teacher told me it was offensive to fake ...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Stigma & BullyingTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterNov 21, 2021
2 points

Being told that I’m a dick for stuttering by a coworker, but I always laught because I can never take him seriously, he’s being an idiot most of the time....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterNov 21, 2021
4 points

I would've gotten mad too and said "how is it "CUTE"? This is HORRIBLE i bet it wouldn't be cute if i was able to give it to you. Also "WEAR?!?!" STUTTERING and CLOTHES are completely different you WE...

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Frustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 21, 2021
14 points

I usually don’t mind when someone says something like “oh, did you forget your name?” But tonight I was serving and as I greeted a table I stuttered on my name. The mother laughs and asks if I’m think...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 21, 2021
8 points

> always makes me repeat my birthday twice ... and always laughs... Never again... Just stare her down. Lock eyes and make it clear this bullshit is done. I have zero tolerance for mean spirited ...

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Frustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 21, 2021
3 points

Lol im in the US some people are patient and cool but some are assholes and then they get surprised when you get mad and spaz out...

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Frustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 21, 2021
18 points

I'm covert but not enough that I'm 100% stealth, so I always get lil jokes every day when I stutter, like they don't realize I actually have a speech disorder and not just "nervous/tired/weird" lol I ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterNov 21, 2021
30 points

What are some things people do that irritate you when they know you stutter?

What are some things people do that irritate you when they know you stutter? Like Cutting you off, making fun of you, ignoring you etc. For me its when people get mad/annoyed at *YOU* because you're s...

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Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & BullyingListener Reactions
commentr/StutterNov 21, 2021
4 points

The worst part for me is that *THEY* get irritated by your stutter as if you're doing it on purpose or as if you're having fun doing it. That REALLY pisses me off...

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Frustration & AngerStigma & Bullying