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postr/StutterSep 24, 2021
7 points

Speech Therapy and Support

Speech Therapy and Support Just really discovered this group and it crossed my mind to join it and post. I have lots of subjects I would like to touch on but for now I would like to get this out of th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentExperiential AssociationValidation & Empathy+2 more
commentr/StutterSep 24, 2021
5 points

I have a stutter and I’ve never disclosed it to anyone apart from my family. My friends at a new college which I recently joined don’t even think I have a stutter and it works in my favour as I don’t ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 24, 2021
3 points

This sounds very superficial. Many Stutters do enough deception and avoidance. It is my opinion that our deception and avoidance reinforces our problem....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterSep 24, 2021
29 points

"Never label yourself as a person who stutters" Whats your take on this common advice?

"Never label yourself as a person who stutters" Whats your take on this common advice? I want to share my opinion on this. I was on a call yesterday with someone who stutters and he told me he is on...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+1 more
postr/StutterSep 24, 2021
17 points

How to interact with people more?

How to interact with people more? This is probably another desperate attempt of mine by posting here. Anyways, I'm 24 and postgraduate student. With universities being all online in my country due to ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterSep 23, 2021
6 points

This is me as well. People don't think I stutter because I make a herculean effort to speak fluently. Doing it in real-time is so draining!...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterSep 23, 2021
21 points

Anyone else a very extroverted individual with a stutter?

Anyone else a very extroverted individual with a stutter? It’s so draining sometimes, I love human interaction and sometimes I’ll practice so hard on planning what I want to say in a social interactio...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 21, 2021
1 points

Same. I also talk more fluently around my sister and close family than professors and other people and I wish that weren't the case because I'd be more interesting and have more friends if I could jus...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & ConcealmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 21, 2021
6 points

I've found that less focus on my speech both improves speech and reduces self-consciousness. For a while I was on a speech therapy program which had me focusing on speech all the time. It did my head ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 20, 2021
2 points

First, it may benefit you to advertise your stutter when you engage in conversation with a girl. I know it’s hard to not overthink, but try not to allow negative self talk to hold you back. Many girls...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+2 more
commentr/StutterSep 20, 2021
7 points

I used to be right in your shoes. At 17 I too struggled hard with self acceptance and confidence with my stutter. One of the most humiliating moments of high school for me happened in 11th grade, when...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterSep 20, 2021
18 points

Stuttering is hard. My stutter had such a negative effect on my personality and who I grew up to be. Can you get into see a therapist? Someone to talk to, and a chance to express your feelings. That...

Therapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Therapy ExperiencesSeeking TherapyHiding & Concealment+3 more
postr/StutterSep 20, 2021
3 points

Any Dating/ making friends tips?

Any Dating/ making friends tips? Hey guys, I’m 24 and I’m a very likable person as I’m told and experienced but when it comes to talking to women or trying to make friends I freeze up and talk myself ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2021
2 points

Same. I work in a call centre believe it or not! If a customer mentions it or says anything I just explain and crack a little joke, but no one has actually said anything yet. I think most of it is in ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2021
2 points

You have to bear in mind, there's a good chance they don't care about it as much as you do, we all have querks that make us who we are. As above, just embrace it, its part of you, don't try to hide fr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHumor & Community Tone+2 more
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2021
3 points

Through my stutter has improved over the years, it's not fully goen yet (I really hope the yet is true) But my advice for you would be to relax more. I'm assuming, like me, your stress comes from you...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2021
2 points

Your stutter is only a problem because you're ashamed of it, my friend. You're a person who stutters and there's nothing wrong with that. Don't apologize, don't try and hide it, just accept it and thi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2021
3 points

Go for communication or you let the stutter prevent you from pursuing something you want....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Severity & FluctuationShame & EmbarrassmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2021
2 points

The telephone ☎️ was my nemesis until I bought one on Ebay that looked like the one we used in the office. I practiced (pretended) making phone calls and receiving phone calls every day for 6 months....

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2021
25 points

The telephone ☎️ was my nemesis until I bought one on Ebay that looked like the one we used in the office. I practiced (pretended) making phone calls and receiving phone calls every day for 6 months....

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHiding & Concealment