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commentr/StutterJul 27, 2024
5 points

I think, that multiple psychological reasons cause the blocking, like fear, stress, past memory, fixation on certain syllables, etc. All of this leads to physiological responses, like muscle spasms,...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Stress & Fight/FlightAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 27, 2024
3 points

Not a doctor but a short time using SRIs worked for my stutter 25+ years ago. Not because they removed the actual act of stuttering but because they gave me a breather from the anticipatory hell of it...

Meds & SubstancesCauses & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Helpful Med OutcomesStress & Fight/FlightAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 27, 2024
1 points

What you are saying is harmful. Alcohol, controlled substances, bizarre surgeries and “extreme drugs” will not actually help anybody. I’m sorry you think any of it can help. There are actually safe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterJul 27, 2024
3 points

Stuttering with an accent

Stuttering with an accent Hey!! Does anyone else hate their accent to? I have a regional British accent I feel like having a strong accent and a stutter is probably the worst combination. Like people...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterJul 27, 2024
31 points

I am terrified of getting a job

I am terrified of getting a job I (20F) have never had a job before. I've done volunteer work but never held a "normal" paying job. I've overcome a lot of fears, like presenting, and I enjoy talking ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2024
4 points

I do pretty much the exact same thing. I only ever force through a block maybe once or twice a month. Probably even less than that....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2024
9 points

Definitely wait. It always frustrated me growing up when people tried to say it because I would still either need to say it myself to continue or it'd just move the block to the next word, and most ti...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2024
5 points

I stutter the most with my family/extremely close friend, other friends not so much. I’m also the same with meeting new people, I’ll have some blocking occur but I usually find ways to manage it bett...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2024
6 points

I stumble upon my words/stutter the most around my family. I don’t stutter as much when I’m talking with my friends. The other day I was talking with my brother’s girlfriend and I didn’t really stutte...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2024
3 points

I did. My stammering was real by by the age of 21-22. Then i moved abroad and start communicating only in English. Which is not my native language and for some reason when i speak any other language t...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Situational VariabilityAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2024
1 points

Well known phenomena- old news. Every novelty in your speech helps as it dissociates you from your stuttering ID....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJul 26, 2024
9 points

Why do I only stutter around certain people?

Why do I only stutter around certain people? I can talk considerably fluent around certain people. But when talking to some people, I will stumble upon my words. ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2024
2 points

Dude, do not settle down. Sales job could well be a gift in your situation... I have been in sales for years, even when i had a big stutter and low confidence, and it helped me face my insecurities, a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2024
2 points

Oh man, I know the feeling all too well . I somewhow made it 18 months in a sales job but eventually had to jump ship partly due to my stutter....

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterJul 25, 2024
4 points

It’s killing me

It’s killing me So it’s been since my young age that I still hang out with the same few friends (only 2) and now we’re getting older we just joined university so both of them are starting to have a n...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentFriendships & Belonging+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2024
8 points

It’s stopped *impacting* my ability to communicate. A new person would never know I am a person who stutterers, and I’m able to say what I want, when, and how I want....

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Identity & Self-PerceptionAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2024
3 points

Reading aloud is the only stuttering exercise I have consistently done. Unfortunately, for me, it hasn't helped at all (sometimes I even feel like I've gotten much worse). However, I agree with you ab...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2024
3 points

Same here .. I ended up mistaking the answers of the questions on purpose .. when the true answer is impossible to be delivered 😔...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2024
2 points

You talk about struggling to start conversations. Practice. “Hello, how you doing?” “How was your journey here?” “Have you been working here for long? What do you do?” Look for things to relate on. If...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2024
3 points

Please, don't let your stutter hold you back. I for example am a social worker, a job where all I do is talk, basically. I encourage you to just throw yourself in cold water. People, and we, stutters,...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerAvoidance & Substitution