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commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2024
5 points

You couldn't be further from the truth. Childhood onset fluency disorder (stuttering) is uncontrollable and basically boils down to a dopamine imbalance in the brain. Confidence in itself can assist i...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Neurological & BrainIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2024
4 points

Our experiences definitely shape us. Stuttering, especially during crucial development years, is an experience you carry for life. I don’t stutter severely anymore but I certainly remember what it was...

Speech & StutteringIdentity & Disability
Onset & Life-Stage ChangesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2024
6 points

I am in the middle of watching. The part at 2:17 resonates with me. "If someone tells me not to stutter, they are basically telling me not to talk." Imagine someone saying "hey, don't do that tap tap...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2024
6 points

I personally don't think stuttering and confidence are always correlated. I've been confident before and still stuttered. I'm striving toward a better quality of life versus perfect fluency....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2024
4 points

There's all types of different stutters, I've met ppl who can't even get a single word or sound out with massive stuttering. Confidence is definitely key tho, helps you not think about it, but everyon...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2024
1 points

Then you have to live with it. I have seen a number of people including famous people like David Goggins, Steve Harvey who used to stutter but after getting successful in their respective fields their...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2024
8 points

A mild stutterer counts as an stutterer, specially if they went from severe to mild. Even if they had gone from severe to non stutterer at all, the memories of being rejected and silenced because of h...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterFeb 11, 2024
39 points

You may be more smart than them

You may be more smart than them Just to let you know I have transitioned from severe to mild stutterer. When I was 5, it was severe. Now at the age of 25, it's really mild (depends on situation) Let...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2024
5 points

I hate my stutter, not myself. But yet the stutter is a part of me. So how could one hate their stutter but not hate themself?...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2024
25 points

>All I wanted was to be normal, nothing special. average. I remember feeling that way. How sad is it to want to be average? Everyone should want to be special. To be something more than average. Bu...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2024
-2 points

So, you think being 'normal' would solve all your probems? If taking fluently is the only thing than can ensure a normal life, then why do fluent people still go through hardships? Why do fluent peop...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideMedicalization / Neurodiversity
postr/StutterFeb 10, 2024
27 points

Hate yourself

Hate yourself I just realized that I will never accept, Ever. All I wanted was to be normal, nothing special. average. And I won't be. So why go on? Nothing makes sense to me. I can't even talk. The ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2024
1 points

Thank you for commenting! Yeah it’s like… I’ve gotten so used to saying the term ‘words’ when I stutter that now it’s a compulsory thing and that’s hard for me to accept. Since this post I even did s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterFeb 10, 2024
11 points

“Do you have Tourette’s?”

“Do you have Tourette’s?” I got asked in the middle of a conversation do I have Tourette’s & clear as day I responded “no I have a speech impediment”. It’s funny how the old me would have been so upse...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying+1 more
postr/StutterMedicationFeb 9, 2024
2 points

Three Years on Lexapro: A Transformative Journey to Overcoming Stuttering

Three Years on Lexapro: A Transformative Journey to Overcoming Stuttering I’m four weeks into Lexapro and seeing amazing results. Most importantly, it took my speech impediment away, almost completely...

Meds & SubstancesAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Helpful Med OutcomesAnticipating StutteringStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2024
2 points

that’s not what I meant by wifey material lol, and it sucks to hear that you can’t go into the deepest details with your partner about your stutter but hopefully you’ll find someone that won’t think i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionDating & Romance
commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2024
3 points

Yea I have a long term boyfriend and he’s the best but I don’t want to burden him with the full weight of emotion. This is literally the insecurity and codependency that comes from feeling less than a...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2024
2 points

nah I get it trust but it’s disheartening to hear that you’ve never met someone that finds your stutter endearing because women+stutter= wifey material(my personal opinion) but do you have any outlets...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2024
3 points

23M. Quit coffee and energy drinks a while ago due to heart pains and also because morning coffee was taking up unnecessary time in the morning. I’m still getting the pains so I’m now thinking it’s my...

Meds & SubstancesSchool & WorkCauses & Variability
Stimulants & CaffeineEmployment & CareerStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
postr/StutterMemesFeb 8, 2024
10 points

Celebrating 100 members🍻

Celebrating 100 members🍻 Its always been a pleasure to share and create memes on this sub. Finally 100 members after a month.. no actually 104. If you can laugh at your 'disability' it means you acc...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Humor & Community ToneAcceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-Perception