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commentr/StutterJan 9, 2022
4 points

I have always seen my stutter as a disadvantage, but reading these comments showed me that having a stutter can have some advantages...

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Validation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2022
3 points

You know there's more than meet the eye and that before you judge a man, you ought to walk a mile in his shoes....

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commentr/StutterJan 9, 2022
7 points

You are able to see things in perspective. Before my stutter developed, I took a lot of things for granted. Now small little things, like conversations with my mom, mean so much to me...

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Validation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2022
19 points

You can immediately tell who is a friend and who is ~~a terrible person~~ someone you don’t want to spend anymore time around. Quick example 1: You’re talking to a coworker (before they know you stut...

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Validation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2022
108 points

You appreciate speech more. Its crazy some people can literally say anything they want yet still choose to remain silent....

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commentr/StutterJan 9, 2022
1 points

i am really glad to have helped, and i wish you so much luck in ur journey to self love...

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commentr/StutterJan 9, 2022
1 points

Thanks for the reply and good words! I will try my best to improve, even tough is hard for me. Thanks again and bye...

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commentr/StutterJan 8, 2022
8 points

First realization when coming in here is that all your struggles are not as unique and out of the line as you think....

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commentr/StutterJan 8, 2022
4 points

Same thing happens to me. There is really no practical solution to it. Don't let it bother you too much, it feels waaaay bigger of a deal that what it actually is....

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commentr/StutterJan 7, 2022
3 points

One of the only people who doesn't say "hHuuHhhH?" like a dumb ass is my friend who also stutters. Men, most people don't even try to understand......

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postr/StutterJan 6, 2022
6 points

Any stutterer from Spain? Any groups to talk in general?

Any stutterer from Spain? Any groups to talk in general? Hey! I'm a 23F from Madrid who is working on its stutter. I recently started allowing myself to stutter but I still struggle a lot if someone i...

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commentr/StutterJan 6, 2022
6 points

The opposite of joy is comparison. This is something we all do and it's poisonous to everyone but when a person who stutters does it with verbal communication, it is a 100% losing battle. There's no ...

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commentr/StutterJan 6, 2022
4 points

Love this post! I don’t stutter often around my girlfriend but when I do she thinks it’s really cute. I remember in middle school when I was faced with asking someone out and it took me a second, she ...

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commentr/StutterJan 6, 2022
2 points

Please don’t let this affect you any shape or form you have to accept it and embrace it and it will be less painful. I understand exactly how you feel but it’s not a reason to give up. Stuttering is t...

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postr/StutterJan 5, 2022
4 points

#2022LikeYourselfChallengez

#2022LikeYourselfChallengez Zach Anner is starting off the year with a great attitude! I know many in this community have trouble with self esteem. Zach has CP, and his content is not at all stutterin...

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Validation & EmpathyHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2022
1 points

Up front works so damn often for me really. If they immediately react negatively, dodged a bullet, if they don’t care, friend found, if changed their behaviour, you know they’re trying to be good at h...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2022
1 points

I also like to think. It helps you narrow down faster than most, where the pricks are and aren’t. Because to tolerate a disfluency you need to be at least not a total scumbag, like our nurse friend he...

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Validation & EmpathyStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2022
1 points

I often reflect on a singular very noticeable bright side. Everyone who I talk to at least once a day. Are 100% without a doubt not complete assholes. Because they have the tolerance to wait, and wan...

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Validation & EmpathyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 3, 2022
2 points

I would maybe try to talk to them again. Maybe they were confused? If they’re great people, they won’t shun you for just having a speech block 🤷‍♀️ mean people would laugh. It sounds like they may ha...

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commentr/StutterJan 3, 2022
1 points

they arent "great friends" if they choose to leave/ignore u because of a stutter...

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Validation & EmpathyStigma & Bullying