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postr/StutterJun 5, 2025
1 points

Stuttering in finance

Stuttering in finance Hey everyone — I could really use some honest input. I’m 30 years old and currently a licensed school social worker. I’ve spent the past several years helping at-risk youth and ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
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postr/StutterJun 5, 2025
3 points

Nepotism dilemma

Nepotism dilemma Long story short, I'm a law graduate and have a hard time finding a job. On top of the already horrible job market, I have a stutter, and that makes interviews extremely difficult. My...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 5, 2025
3 points

I can’t say my first or last name and the year I was born so I get you. Anywhere I go I make them aware first that I have a speech impediment so they know to be patient and not speak over me etc, if I...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 5, 2025
1 points

Get ADA accomodation letter read (if you are located in US). If someone superior to you is a bully you can't afford to change their mind yourself. If you even smell disrespect you should find out how ...

Coping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesEmployment & CareerAccess & Rights
postr/StutterJun 4, 2025
10 points

I hate stuttering

I hate stuttering Can't even fucking defend myself when someone tries to make fun of me or embarrass me. I'm still thinking about it even after more than two weeks. I can't even study or do anything c...

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commentr/StutterJun 4, 2025
3 points

Truly, no one will say anything. If they do, you can choose how to handle it but I just simply say “I stutter” and usually they get all sheepish. I’m a therapist/professor and talk for a living. If yo...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
postr/StutterJun 4, 2025
3 points

Healthcare workers pls give a girl some advice and words of encouragement.

Healthcare workers pls give a girl some advice and words of encouragement. Hey so I have a question for anyone who works in healthcare as a stutter. I am a student who works in a field of healthcare t...

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commentr/StutterJun 3, 2025
6 points

*Treat him like any normal employee. He only stutters.* I couldn't agree more. My managers and colleagues have never made an issue of my stuttering. When I experience blocks, they patiently wait for ...

School & WorkCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2025
-1 points

Ask your new employee few questions to understand his stuttering 1. He stutters when alone ? 2. Does he stutter on a specific word or does it happen irrespective of words? 3. He stutters in a speci...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesOverthinking & MonitoringPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2025
3 points

I can't add anything to what Dave already mentioned (which was 100% spot on), but I just wanted to say thank you! Thank you for taking the time to be as considerate as you have been by even making thi...

Community & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Validation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2025
7 points

OP, a few things I want to say first before I get to the heart of my post. First I want to congratulate you on hiring a stammer. Secondly in reaching out to not only to educate yourself on how to work...

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commentr/StutterJun 3, 2025
14 points

What Dave said \+ ask how they'd like to be introduced or if they want to have someone introduce them. The anxiety about introducing myself is probably the top of my list of fears....

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Anticipating StutteringSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2025
41 points

Worked for several large firms. All but one have been great. 1. Take the time to listen to them 2. Give them a little extra prep time for presentations 3. Encouragement if they did well say so. 4. As...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
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postr/StutterJun 3, 2025
54 points

How to support a new hire with a stutter?

How to support a new hire with a stutter? I work as a project manager in a small company in Germany. We've recently interviewed and hired a new employee who stutters. This employee will start work in ...

Community & SupportCoping & Advocacy
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postr/StutterMay 28, 2025
31 points

My boyfriend always insists on “doing the talking” for me

My boyfriend always insists on “doing the talking” for me my boyfriend has a stutter and i do not i’m autistic which causes me a lot of social anxiety. i’m taking little steps to try and get better a...

Community & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Validation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2025
1 points

Yes . I agree. So to summarize it. **Summary:** Our subconscious is constantly *judging and evaluating* the world around us; our opinions are just a small glimpse into the part of their heart they h...

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commentr/StutterMay 26, 2025
1 points

Yeah that really really sucks but unfortunately, I don't think this part of having a stutter ever truly goes away, honestly, because people often choose to remain ignorant until the problem affects th...

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Validation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMay 25, 2025
2 points

In my opinion, that is being delusional. Stuttering for you is obviously a problem as you wrote this essay. I'm not saying to make it your personality but you have to accept it. You need to learn to a...

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postr/stutteringMay 25, 2025
1 points

My life as a person with stuttering and my goal

My life as a person with stuttering and my goal I lived 10 years of my life stuttering and now turning 18 next year. I never accepted my stuttering especially not growing up as i was being bullied for...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
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commentr/StutterMay 24, 2025
2 points

Sorry to hear this you need to learn to not give a fuck about what people think of your stutter. It is not your fault you stutter and you should not have to blame yourself for something that is out of...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesHope & Motivation+3 more