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commentr/StutterOct 6, 2025
1 points

I am not attractive and have a moderate-severe stutter. I have been married, divorced and then married again. I also have children. It’s all about attitude and confidence. Throwing a pity party ...

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commentr/StutterOct 6, 2025
12 points

My past girlfriends and my wife all said that my stutter was one of the things that attracted them to me. Having a stutter helps attract women. I do know that women are turned off by men who whine, c...

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commentr/StutterOct 6, 2025
18 points

That's what I used to think too, but what do you know - I've been married for over a decade and I have three kids. Don't sulk. Go out there and do things. Be open to meeting new people....

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commentr/StutterOct 6, 2025
44 points

As someone who stutters and who's been married for nearly 25 years to a lovely woman, I can only tell you what helped me get many dates, and, eventually, a wife (and three wonderful daughters). ...

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postr/StutterOct 6, 2025
23 points

Because of my stutter, I have no chance with women.

Because of my stutter, I have no chance with women. Because of my stutter, I have no chance with women. Unless you're handsome, you need to be able to talk. I have neither. Naturally, women don't want...

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commentr/StutterOct 5, 2025
3 points

Married to a stutter here, I thought it was cute then & more so now. but him being hella attractive also helped...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2025
6 points

Remember there's a wide spectrum of women out there. Some are vain and superficial obsessed with appearances while others are deep thinking compassionate and empathetic. The asshole detector aspect of...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2025
5 points

Do girls really think our stutter is cute? I always thought they found it kind of repelling...

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commentr/StutterOct 4, 2025
7 points

I probably wouldn’t have built my physique the way I did. Being in shape was my saving grace in dating because having muscle attracted women far more than my conversation skills lol. I was always acti...

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postr/StutterOct 4, 2025
1 points

When I stutter while talking to the girl I like, I feel like I don't have any chance with her

When I stutter while talking to the girl I like, I feel like I don't have any chance with her ...

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Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 3, 2025
5 points

Why am I not allowed to get sad or angry about it. I want to be charismatic and personable so badly but I can’t be no matter how much I try. I can’t go up and approach women I find attractive. I can’t...

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commentr/StutterOct 3, 2025
1 points

No one in my entire family stutters but me. And my oldest brother is the most horrible person I know (he doesn't stutter either). Get married if you want to. If you decide to have a kid you could have...

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commentr/StutterOct 3, 2025
1 points

I used to go back and forth about wanting to get married simply because the idea of saying my vows out loud, and yes I always wondered if having children would be irresponsible. BUT I met someone wh...

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commentr/StutterOct 3, 2025
2 points

Me as a stutterer, I'll never get bring children cuz I don't want them go though whatI had been through and still going through....simply if you bring a child and stutteres it should be considered as ...

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Helplessness & AgencyDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 3, 2025
7 points

I don't want to have children either. I made that decision when I was still a teenager, years ago. If I have any children, I'll adopt. I've already had a vasectomy. I've seen people who stutter say th...

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commentr/StutterSep 30, 2025
1 points

Yk the worst when someone you go on a date with for a first time and she doesn’t know I stutter because i stutter mildly most of the times and the first time i stutter she laughed at me imean we both ...

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commentr/StutterSep 30, 2025
1 points

Just go for it bro! I’ve stuttered my whole life and i definitely understand how scary it can be. She most likely won’t care anyway and will see right past it. And if she’s got a problem with it, she’...

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commentr/StutterSep 30, 2025
4 points

I think by spending more time with people? Developing my friendships and relationships, I think, helped with that self-confidence, and makes it easier to brush off this thoughts. I'm not going to pre...

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commentr/StutterSep 30, 2025
2 points

Hi there. Does she know you stutter? Gotta shoot your shot, be damned what people think....

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commentr/StutterSep 30, 2025
2 points

What is mean don’t like them??? I think they look more at your personality + attractiveness,and stuttering goes in 5th place...

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