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commentr/StutterMay 14, 2021
1 points

For me its more, who carries the meeting. If it is my agenda a stutter more. And in others even when im the focus point, a pretty much fluent....

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commentr/StutterMay 13, 2021
7 points

Yeah it’s the thought of messing up and embarrassing yourself in front of everyone which then makes you mess up. I would say the best way is to try to get comfortable and try not to focus on stutterin...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterMay 13, 2021
16 points

Why do I speak flawlessly when it’s 1 on 1 but if I’m in a group it’s worse?

Why do I speak flawlessly when it’s 1 on 1 but if I’m in a group it’s worse? Went on a date and had a amazing time, i had 0 trouble communicating with her but i struggled so much to order a pizza from...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2021
3 points

I've gotten a similar question before. As such, I copied most of the following from a previous response. It's more of a program than any particular techniques. I believe the therapist is an integral ...

Therapy & ProfessionalCoping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Positive Therapy TechniquesFluency TechniquesOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2021
3 points

I've gotten a similar question before. As such, I copied most of the following from a previous response. It's more of a program than any particular techniques. I believe the therapist is an integral ...

Therapy & ProfessionalCoping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Positive Therapy TechniquesFluency TechniquesOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2021
1 points

This are a helpful list and I'm currently in a pretty high flying fluent phase after being a gibbering mess last year. I have my own little list of things to do. Just a note though there's no panacea...

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postr/StutterMay 9, 2021
5 points

feeling frustrated

feeling frustrated hey everyone this is my first post here. I've been stuttering since I was in high school. I had some speech therapy when I was in college. lately my speech has kind of gotten a l...

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commentr/StutterMay 9, 2021
1 points

Not a therapist, just a fellow stutterer. I think it's gone worse for him with age. If you look at his speeches as VP he didn't stutter as much. Makes sense though, not enough energy to focus on it as...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Severity & FluctuationOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMay 9, 2021
2 points

Oh nice, i hope all goes well for you! My training starts tomorrow and i'm getting super nervous just overthinking everything that could go wrong. I thought i was gonna help people make an appointment...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Overthinking & MonitoringEmployment & Career
postr/StutterMay 8, 2021
13 points

Writing certain letters?

Writing certain letters? Anyone else get stuck on certain letters almost like a verbal stutter but while writing? Growing up bilingual I had strong stutter that was more prevalent in one language tha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
postr/StutterMay 8, 2021
31 points

How do you feel?

How do you feel? I feel as if I don’t belong anywhere. I’m not meant for anyone or any thing. That being stated. I know many of you were able to overcome this and have productive lives with support ...

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postr/StutterMay 7, 2021
3 points

Anyone else in a masters or higher education program? Any good advice for helping getting by with a stutter

Anyone else in a masters or higher education program? Any good advice for helping getting by with a stutter Starting my MBA on Monday. Looking forward to get my masters but not looking forward doing p...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringSchool & Academic Life+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2021
1 points

I also know I am capable and intelligent as I know stuttering is also really uncomfortable to hear from others, so I hate pityness while I just want honest people. But yes maybe you hit the spot, I o...

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commentr/StutterMay 6, 2021
1 points

Yeah I think when I got to around 14/15 I became very self conscious about it and now I’m just becoming more and more self conscious and analysing every little thing lol. Not very fun...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterMay 3, 2021
6 points

Gonna start a new temporary job soon, as a call center employee.

Gonna start a new temporary job soon, as a call center employee. This is my first post btw. I've been using reddit for a few years now but somehow never took the time to look up a stutter subreddit.. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 2, 2021
3 points

Are you me? Because that's the exact same case for me. Even though prolly no one cares in my class and no one mocks me for my stutter I keep overthinking whenever I stutter.....

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Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMay 2, 2021
13 points

I keep overthinking and it’s driving me mad

I keep overthinking and it’s driving me mad I have found in the last couple of years in particular I have started to overthink about my stutter and everything around it so much. I’m 17 now and I’m at ...

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commentr/StutterMay 1, 2021
6 points

Same. My dad always told me “try thinking about what you say before you say it.” in response to my stutter. That makes it worse 100%...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMay 1, 2021
2 points

The more I think about it and try not to stutter, the harder it is for me. When I'm not thinking about it, my mind is somewhere else, and I'm talking...it comes out much more fluently. I can even tric...

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commentr/StutterMay 1, 2021
17 points

Yes, when I'm in auto pilot mode I just respond without any thinking and i rarely stutter (usually the case when talking to family or responding to simple requests and questions) but when I have to th...

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