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commentr/StutterNov 1, 2021
3 points

Thanks for your insight! I should’ve stated that I am not trying to hide my stutter nor am I ashamed of it. I just really hate the way blocks feel (I have a hernia in my chest from GI issues and bad b...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2021
1 points

That's the best you came up with? You're as bad at this as you are at talking. Everything you worry people think when you stutter is true. They all laugh at you behind your back....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2021
4 points

Works great until people don’t even know you stutter until one day when you inevitably have a bad block. That’s when it gets awkward. That used to happen to me in my covert days. Super stressful tbh. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2021
3 points

I did this during a college presentation, and even though a few people still laughed a bit (at least they tried to hide it), it felt better than a previous experience where I hadn't disclosed it and s...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2021
2 points

See im the opposite of this. Growing up as a child to teenager i never had a real stuttering issue. Mines was always mild until that one day when i was around 18 or 17 when a friend made a joke about ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2021
2 points

I’m in a glass box and everyone I’ve ever known and everyone I’ll ever come in contact with is surrounding the glass box. I can see and *hear* what everyone is saying. I see them all mingling with e...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 27, 2021
2 points

When I was s kid I think the shame of going during school actually motivated me to do whatever I could to stop....

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2021
2 points

I am in my mid 30 now and still remember that moments. Still have nightmares sometimes. I guess is normal in people that stutter. It got better with time but may be just in my case....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2021
10 points

I have ptsd or some kind of trauma from that. I get nightmares about times my teacher told me to read or some kind of presentation. I hear people laughing and calling me stupid or calling me retarde...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2021
3 points

Hell yes. I remember acting like I was trying to sound the word out when I stuttered. Very cringe....

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2021
1 points

We are our own worst critics. That’s for everybody not just people who stutter....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2021
13 points

Sometimes I just think about what it would be like to talk freely without worry and exhaustion and how enjoyable my life would be. It’s like people don’t really understand how blessed they are, but I ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessQuality of Life
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2021
11 points

This is exactly my life. And yes, I am completely exhausted. I come home everyday feeling like I’ve been practically physically assaulted. Feels impossible to actually get close to people living like ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/FlightShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2021
5 points

You're not ridiculous for feeling that way, when it is less severe I often wonder whether is was ever actually 'bad', until it gets worse then I feel even more like a twat for thinking that in the fir...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2021
5 points

I don't think it's a direct correlation. But I believe there is a correlation for many of us. I've said it numerous times, stuttering can really do a number on one's self esteem. For those of us that...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2021
12 points

sorry you’re dealing w this 😐 unfortunately, some ppl do and say hurtful things (usually from a place of insecurity and unhealed traumas). know those behaviors are a reflection of him and not you, a...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFamily Support & Conflict
postr/StutterOct 22, 2021
22 points

POEM “proud to stutter”

POEM “proud to stutter” i’m proud to stutter it wasn’t always this way. stuttering was a consistent and major source of shame for most of my life. i hated it and went to great lengths to hide it. i o...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 20, 2021
1 points

Yea, I think it's mostly because I see my own face in video calls/work meetings. It's just like a hit to my ego seeing myself struggle so much to string together an elementary sentence. Whereas other ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentPhysical Tension
postr/StutterOct 20, 2021
28 points

How do you accept the ugliness of blocking?

How do you accept the ugliness of blocking? I understand the title can seem a bit harsh for those who may feel offended, but as someone who has stuttered all my life and deal/dealt with severe blocks ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterOct 19, 2021
17 points

Living with a stutter

Living with a stutter I'm glad I found this group because my stutter has been eating at me a lot lately, people have asked if I was drunk they think I'm trying to play some kind of game with them and ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger