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Hey man don’t feel down i know this feeling i got presentations in university that I’m actively avoiding i don’t care about the grade it’s not worth the embarrassment i just wanna pass and not be a la...

Everything feels like a humiliation ritual

Everything feels like a humiliation ritual I had an interview today. I would say it went well except for one of the interviewers trying not to laugh at me because of my stutter. I've been trying not t...

I’m not sure on the what exact scenario to use, but all I know is that you will definitely have to include multiple minutes of footage before the actual interaction if it’s something like ordering foo...

people pleaser and stuttering

people pleaser and stuttering How many of you have people pleasing behaviour because of stuttering. I have it, I am trying to control this. “Just so people like me, I am doing more than I should, I a...

Reading in class or having to do a presentation is something that kills me inside. I try to control my stutter but it is difficult, like lifting a weight, a really heavy one, and as soon as I stutter ...

The anxeity when you need to order at somewhere like starbucks. where you need to give your name and the shame when you get a confused look and a look of confusion when you cannot get your words out. ...

This is a huge revelation. You frame it negatively, but the positive spin on your story is that you know who you are, stutter or no. It's by no means easy to overcome the physical barrier of stutterin...

Explain to them how communication breaks down when someone stutters. Eye contact is lost. The person hearing has an emotional reaction – pity, mocking, empathy, whatever. They feel something. They kno...

I'm used to being humiliated because of my stutter. They did it at school, and they do it at work too. Unfortunately, if you stutter, everyone thinks you're stupid and a loser. I don't quit my job be...

I hated that movie, it gave the message of "you have to be able to beat your stutter or you're worthless"...

For me, I keep covering my mouth like its gonna do anything. I got over it, only thing left on me is just stuttering and it gets really embarrassing sometimes....

I still feel humiliated everytime I stutter, and I still hate myself aftwards, I keep thinking for the rest of the day why did I open my mouth,.. I guess now at my age after all these years of stamm...

Update: I went there as soon as they opened, barely anyone was there. It went well and I didn’t stutter once!! He even asked me for my address which I wasn’t expecting. I said it all perfectly!!!!! A...

I've just become numb to the humiliation. Did you ever get that? Unfortunately, it's made me almost psychopathic in a social sense. I now find it tremendously difficult to care about what people think...

Ok I love this meme. lol. But I love David Tennant. I do think we are hypervigilant, which is common for people who have had a lot of negative experiences....

You say her stutter doesn’t bother you but what you’re describing often is part of having a stutter. So realize that it does bother you actually....

This sounds like she's been surrounded by Enablers since her very childhood, because of which she either doesn't want to get better or doesn't believe she can. Being mad and frustrated at her, while n...

Felt this 😭 the added insecurity makes the stutter worse and creates a more fortified negative feedback...

All i wanna say is that whenever she stutters , try not to look disappointed or sad, my parents do that to me sometime and it really made me think like a disappointed them. Wish you both the best of l...

I try not to think about it but when it happens, I think about it and all the negative thoughts which come along side it; which then in turn makes it worse....