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commentr/StutterMay 15, 2024
5 points

Fear is a choice my man. Say “Fuck it” and be yourself. If she doesn’t like you for you, then so be it. If she doesn’t like you bc you stutter, may she get her herpes and trip on a thousand snakes...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2024
1 points

Hi! So first of all, I completely understand what you are going through. I have been through this myself. When I was your age, I wanted nothing more than to remove myself of my stutter, and I would h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & Weight+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2024
2 points

Hi! So first of all, I completely understand what you are going through. I have been through this myself. When I was your age, I wanted nothing more than to remove myself of my stutter, and I would h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & Weight+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2024
2 points

Thank you for your reply I agree with everything you are saying. My tittle is a little misleading because I didn’t stop stuttering while tripping but i accepted my stutter which reduced my stuttering....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2024
8 points

Good for you! YOLO! I’m sure that this will lead to other new opportunities in your life. I studied Japanese at university, and my first year Japanese teacher told me later that she never thought t...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationEmployment & CareerQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2024
3 points

me too! for me it’s probably because my brain doesn’t have the energy to be anxious or excited (which is usually the cause for my stutter) when i’m tired but i believe we can do it 💪💪...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightEnergy & Biological RhythmsHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 14, 2024
3 points

Sending you hugs ! Been experiencing this too most of the times. I thinj it mightve to do with the hormones and or the current consciousness whenever we’re tired and or if we lacked sleep. Somehow, th...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Energy & Biological RhythmsHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 14, 2024
6 points

Happened with me once too. I had to give presentation in my university, in front of all my classmates and few teachers. I thought I would messed up this time and all people there will get to know that...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Situational VariabilityHope & MotivationPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2024
1 points

Some do some don’t. The reality is that it’s a numbers game just keep at it and you’ll find someone. I’ve had dates where I can hardly talk since I’m so nervous and girls still tend to go still go...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2024
13 points

Good question, I believe some people were able to mask their stutters without even needing to use techniques, unfortunately, I'm far from that kind of improvement. I've discovered that a stuttering pe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2024
1 points

I would say, don’t be surprised if you find some people who do care and don’t want to date because of it. It’s good not to be delusional about it. But don’t always assume that don’t lose hope if you...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2024
5 points

I mean, if you find the right person your stutter will not matter. I met my now husband and i hid my stutter for a couple months while we dated. Eventually i told him and he said he really doesn’t car...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionDating & RomanceHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2024
3 points

Yeah, I often wonder bout my "other life", I 100% know it wouldn't of been the life I've had, and I'm 61, but I have lived life like this, I have two great sons and grandchildren, so for that alon...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2024
2 points

Congratulations, you experience the same blocks as many of us here do. There will be days when you'll stutter less or more, what matters is your reaction to those days, surround yourself with people y...

Speech & StutteringCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesValidation & EmpathyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2024
5 points

Some people think it’s a nervous thing as if you’re nervous to be talk to them “because you like them” or something like that, I’ve met a couple girls like that, it’s nothing to get angry over, yes it...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2024
2 points

I would have gotten commissioned in the army vs being forced out, prob would’ve had more confidence growing up, would have prob been less empathetic, who knows. In the end, I keep it, it humbles me ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2024
5 points

No. If I didn’t stutter I would have gone to university, I wouldn’t have met my partner and my children wouldn’t exist. I have had a lot of sad times and I have missed on opportunities that I may ha...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-PerceptionAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2024
6 points

I’m so sorry for your loss, I can’t even begin to understand how you feel but I’ve lost one of my oldest brothers and it was really hard for me and my stutter when that happened. My stutter just ended...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2024
4 points

That's the way , do things that u do if you weren't have stutter ,and that's will improve your speech , cause you do things u love which motivate you to be better , i think more we try to cure stutter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationMindset shift
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2024
1 points

I mean, maybe. I was diagnosed a couple of years ago but my diagnosis didn’t change anything. It actually gave me peace because I finally knew what the hell was ‘wrong’ with me and why I struggled so...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation