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commentr/StutterNov 20, 2022
4 points

It's so casually used that I don't think people are seeing how it normalises judgement against people with disfluency. People with fluency can say anything yet they choose to say this phrase 🙄...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & BullyingMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2022
4 points

Then just say "did you not understand me". For me it's that the phrase isn't used in that sense, it's used when a statement is made and "did they stutter?" is used to emphasise that what was said wa...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & BullyingMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2022
23 points

I agree 100% I get so irritated when I hear it. It’s basically making stuttering a negative or less intelligent....

Identity & Disability
Stigma & Bullying
postr/StutterNov 20, 2022
74 points

I hate the phrase "did they stutter?"

I hate the phrase "did they stutter?" I hate seeing and hearing "did they stutter?" after a speech or a snappy comeback. I approached someone who said this phrase, saying that if a person were to stu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2022
2 points

Unfortenetly, stuttering also makes a listener lose interest more often then not!...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2022
1 points

Maybe the folks that are not OK with stuttering think WE are not worth their time......when I stuttered many yrs ago to someone they walked away...they probably thought I was not worth their time.......

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2022
1 points

People tend to avoid feeling uncomfortable...and stuttering makes others uncomfortable so they flee the situation when it happens!!...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2022
3 points

Very relatable. Been stuttering since 10 now 56. The worse is when family introduce me to their friends and they tell them that I'm SHY!!!!...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2022
2 points

Honestly it’s been helpful. I also worked in customer service for 10 years prior. My dad was a “face your fears” kind of parenter. Seemed harsh at the time but I appreciate it now. In comparing the jo...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Identity & Self-PerceptionStigma & BullyingSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2022
5 points

2 older teen girls laughed at me when I stuttered on my own name...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Stigma & BullyingFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2022
0 points

Your silence was the best answer. Everything will be accounted for in due time, that's how the world works and what goes around comes around in the end....

Identity & Disability
Stigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2022
0 points

There's nothing wrong with stuttering. We aren't the ones who really have an issue with it, it's others. That person is an asshole...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2022
6 points

Honestly, all of them should be ashamed. Assuming that no one stood up for you. Especially your GF. Loyalty must not run in her blood....

Identity & Disability
Stigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2022
31 points

Yeah, she sounds like an a$$hole no offense. Being drunk doesn't excuse of being a horrible person. I know many people who drink and they know about my stutter, None of them had ever mocked my stutter...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterNov 12, 2022
45 points

embarrassing dinner

embarrassing dinner I went out to dinner with 8 of my friends, with my girlfriend and two roommates. I was talking across the table and I stuttered pretty bad and my roommate (who knows I stutter) jus...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2022
2 points

I have some advice for you. Its not the best of advice in some peoples eyes.. I stutter too and I had to take matters into my own hands. Who ever picks on a person with a speech impediment is the ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2022
3 points

And that makes no sense!!! Folks don't laugh at folks on crutches or those that are mentally disabled...why do stutterers get free will to be laughed at??? It's like were being singled out!!...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2022
1 points

If physical assault was legal in the US without getting arrested, you should have punched his lights out!! If anyone laughs or makes fun of a stuttering person, they should have the tar kicked out of...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2022
1 points

That’s awesome that you responded and good that he apologized. My son pretends he doesn’t hear that kind of stuff and I think it’s GREAT that you instantly defended yourself- unfortunately this stuff ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2022
5 points

Who the hell would react by laughing and saying “what the hell?” when they see someone struggling to speak? I agree that they almost definitely didn’t have hurtful intentions. However, that shouldn’t ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & Bullying