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commentr/StutterSep 10, 2019
2 points

It's OK. U should be happy that you got through it and could convey what you say. Try facing your fears and you will eventually improve. Good luck to you 😄...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Hope & MotivationMindset shift
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2019
2 points

Imo it’s way better to laugh at those jokes if you truly find it funny because if you’re casting a shadow of judgement that’s saying “since I live with this these jokes are not funny and can never be ...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Humor & Community ToneMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterAug 19, 2019
5 points

How to cope with first day introductions in class.

How to cope with first day introductions in class. Today was day one, I know everyone in my cohort as well as the teachers so idk wtf we had to go around, but here's how I did it. I knew that the lo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2019
1 points

Try to keep these happy and positive memories and replace it with the negative stuttering memories. Remember, its all in the mind and you will improve only if you stay positive, happy and confident. A...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterAug 13, 2019
1 points

Well said! I use diaphragmatic breathing and my attitude has completely changed from nervous and caring what other people think to completely confident and not giving a S\*\*t what people think of my...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Mindfulness & BreathingMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride+1 more
postr/StutterAug 11, 2019
32 points

Changing perceptions- beyond my wildest dreams

Changing perceptions- beyond my wildest dreams Presentations, radio interviews, meeting new people, striking conversations with people on the plane, comfortably using the phone in virtually any situat...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2019
2 points

Regardless of the backstory if you prove to yourself you’re capable to do it you will and there’s a change of attitude in this response than in the OP, you seem more willing and confident in yourself ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2019
1 points

Yes sir I do have time. I have 2 years at most. And this has become the only goal that I have to acheive. I am doing what I can but sometimes it's just too much. This speech impediment.... It shatters...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2019
2 points

You need to distract your conscience self from the fact that you stutter. Forget you have a stutter and the stress along with the reflex of when your about to stutter will go away. All I can say is be...

Coping & AdvocacyCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftStress & Fight/FlightIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2019
4 points

Hahahaha! I laugh at your response man. They mock you because of your retaliation. Show your oomf. Let it anger you not distress you. The times when I least stuttered in the past is when I confronted ...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Frustration & AngerSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesMindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2019
3 points

You got this! I started at a new school my senior year. Surprisingly, no one said shit even though my fluency was awful. I got so much more confidence in college. Good luck to you this year! I love yo...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
School & Academic LifeIdentity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2019
1 points

The army will be good for you man. The times when I least stuttered was when I was loud and showing aggression. The army is all about that. Go and don’t think your stutter will hold you back. Think ab...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightMindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2019
2 points

Maybe tell him you have a stutter, but if you're confident you can lead and know your stuff better than any other candidate. Your stutter won't matter if you're confident in the fact that you are pass...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2019
1 points

You sure it wouldn't? If you feel confident within yourself, you'll be more able to do things even with a stutter. Atleast in my experience. If I feel I'm confident in what I'm doing then my speech do...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2019
1 points

Yeah I hope yours is too. When I was joining I had to go see a doctor type person so they know how bad I have it I guess. It was in a relaxed setting so I passed easily. But I know with the US if so...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesIdentity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2019
2 points

By all means giving up will never solve the problem you’ll be adding more gas to the fire and my dude King George VI had a stutter and he ruled a whole kingdom so you most certainly can become the lea...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2019
3 points

I think you have nerves, sort of like cold feet. Someone believed in you enough to offer you the job. Do it. The job itself is the best practice you will ever have. It will be the best decision yo...

School & WorkCoping & Advocacy
Employment & CareerMindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2019
2 points

Do NOT give up by any means. Ultimately you will hate yourself more for it. I studied in accounting and finance in university, expecting myself to land jobs that left me on the backend of company oper...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2019
6 points

Dude you can do it. I was in the US Marines, and I have a stutter, had it since I was born. I was in the infantry, where communication is key. It was hard but it's doable. If I could do it anyone can ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesMindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2019
3 points

There's a lot more to your existence than your stutter, even though it might not seem like it. You deserve a good life too! I would suggest trying to improve other parts of your life and your speech ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift