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commentr/StutterDec 1, 2022
1 points

I really wish teachers understood.. They just don't. My teacher has a PhD in Communication and she claims to be the "Comm Queen" yet doesn't understand stuttering and how it works. It's really ridicul...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Stigma & BullyingSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterDec 1, 2022
0 points

When I was dating my husband he went into a block and I got freaked out inside. I went home and told my brother about it and later confessed to my husband what I said about his funny faces. He did loo...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingListener Reactions
commentr/StutterDec 1, 2022
3 points

If a person mocks my stutter during conversation it doesn't make me upset or anything but it shows me their true character so then I just gradually cut them out of my life. I can't be around those typ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterDec 1, 2022
1 points

This happened a lot when I am younger. I'm 38 years old and it died down, but I still get weird stares, asking if I am okay, people acting if I am slow. I overheard one person ask another person if I ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterDec 1, 2022
4 points

I don't know if it's a normal reaction but it at least seems logical to close your heart to people that you think will hurt you in the long run. I had a similar story to yours, or turning point in ho...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 30, 2022
1 points

My friends and I joke about my stutter all the time. I know them well enough to know it's lighthearted fun just like when we joke about one friend's "problematic" relationship or another friend's poli...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Humor & Community ToneStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 30, 2022
2 points

Therapy is a good idea to sort through these thoughts and emotions. When someone I don’t know mocks my stutter, I tell them I have a stutter & that’s why I repeat my words. Their joke quickly tur...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesIdentity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 30, 2022
12 points

A guy I dated laughed and asked “are you okay?” when I stuttered during trivial pursuit. So I just told him I was tired, told him to go home, then texted him saying I wasn’t interested in dating him f...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterNov 30, 2022
9 points

Immediately checking out of a conversation when someone mocks your stutter?

Immediately checking out of a conversation when someone mocks your stutter? Have any of you ever had someone mock your stutter mid conversation and find it uncomfortably easy to... block them from you...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 30, 2022
1 points

I still stutter. I am 62 and have all my life. So many things I could have done if I didn’t. It’s better now as the stigma isn’t as bad. In the 70’s they put us in a closet and had speech class...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 30, 2022
2 points

A lot of people in my family stutter, including my sister who has 2 kids. Both of her kids however, do not have stutters. I can't say if there is luck involved, but one great thing that comes out of a...

Causes & VariabilitySocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Genetic & Family FactorsFamily Support & ConflictStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 29, 2022
5 points

Both my parents had a slightly stutter that went away, one of my siblings had it but ut went away, and I had it but it never went away. All triggered after bullying... Might be a coincidence, but it m...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Genetic & Family FactorsTrauma & PsychologicalStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 29, 2022
2 points

You're only confident because you "don't care about other people's feedback", you've trained yourself to not give a shit. I don't want to live my life where I'm deluded (no offense) that public opinio...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 29, 2022
1 points

You are right. People view us as less than automatically. I don't know why your being down voted for being honest. I think what some are saying about confidence could be worded better as acceptance....

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 29, 2022
1 points

How about we relate it to a different disability. What if every time you looked at someones blown off leg in a wheelchair they got weird about it. Or they got weird about you asking what being blind i...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 29, 2022
3 points

I think "confidence" has been assigned to the wrong thing here. Confidence in a tool does not help when your tool (your mouth) is unreliable, you're right, but people who talk about "having confidence...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 29, 2022
-3 points

"be confident" that's like telling someone their dead dog is gonna come back. Confident usually forms through optimism, what the hell is so optimistic about feeling like you're choking every type you ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 29, 2022
1 points

"don't care what others think", not everyone is a fucking monk who's disciplined enough to not care about public opinion. Stuttering is hard enough especially when it's servere but it's even worse whe...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencyStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 28, 2022
3 points

What I would do is start over then substitute it for another word that I know that I can say, and if anyone laughs at my block or stuttering I just ignore them because i’m used to it and I don’t let t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 28, 2022
2 points

It's all about the society where we live. I was in school in the early 2000s so nobody knows how it should be....

Identity & Disability
Stigma & Bullying